啊啊啊！！！怎么办？？

darcie

如果是finance的话大家就不会这么客气了

逐梦

人家版主mm不是从第一个帖子就表达了那些意思么?

而且人家还说大家不要言辞过激了?

dahua2008

说实话，开始我也觉得mm之前就发帖询问之后说决定了，现在再反复是太犹豫。不管那个老师怎么建议你hold on, 他不可能阻拦你做决定啊，想必是你的犹豫感染了他。一入学就有老师带着做project是很幸运的事。没有他，你可能也没有columbia的offer；但是如果你想去columbia，也没有什么大不了的，他会理解的。这样拖着你自己也累，那老师也累。

但是无论我们是否认可lzmm在处理这件事情上的态度，她对这个版上的朋友一直是很信任很友善的。有些话，mm不要太在意，你想，你已经很幸运了^_^

Haas07

呵呵，说实话，倒觉得斑竹 MM的风格别具一格，
版上还真不多见

完了，也快成水贴了

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-3-23 2:57:58编辑过]

chenhudaxue

HAAS07你好...哈哈哈

Drakedirect

对duhua2008mm的话，我也有同感，lz还是尽快吧，呵呵，这贴真的变味了...

lfdb

其实说实话，我挺认同斑竹mm的怀疑。

既然gaogao这位总共只登陆过cd两次，恐怕不能算是潜水很久。这跟他自己说的自相矛盾呐。再说这个论坛上火爆的帖子相当多，言辞激烈也不是第一次，要是个纯粹看不惯的主，恐怕早就出现了，然而这位兄弟/姐妹第一帖就发到这个了……

嗯，我觉得有所怀疑很reasonable。

lfdb

再说了，人家斑竹mm也只是很中肯地把自己地意见说了。话都说得通俗易懂，光明磊落，并没有旁敲侧击，冷嘲热讽啊……

不过我也不觉的是ttfan mm自己的马甲拉……

Anyway，我很看好ttfan mm，呵呵，现在她立于不败之地！随便哪个都很好！！

祖国代有人才出，开心开心！

wiwiana

tingting, if i were you, i would pick NYU.

What i think is... the relationship between professors and students, sometimes, is just like the relationship between men and women. Your professor do not want you to choose NYU because of the burden of responsibility. Because he does not want you to blame him in future. Yet it doesnt mean that he does not want you to go NYU. He just does not want you to go NYU because of responsibility. If you really go to NYU, I am sure he will be very happy and he will take very good care of you and your research.

In my opinion, both NYU and Columbia are very good in Marketing. Maybe Columbia is better. But i think the difference is very small as both of them are VERY GOOD SCHOOLS. Honestly having a good mentor/supervisor is more important than the school name and ranking, esp. the reputation and location of two schools are in fact very very close.

What i think is.. .if you go to NYU, the prof will thank and appreciate you a lot. He will be very good to you and will help you A LOT in job market in future. If you go to Columbia, i think, undoubtedly, it will ruin the relationship. Maybe you can find some other good professors in Columbia, but you never know.. there is always a risk when u go to a new place.

I have worked for almost 4 years before application. So I really know how the real world works and I know how important relationship is. Even in academic world, relationship is still something VERY IMPORTANT. You will see your professor in many many occassions. He will also be a journal editor looking at your submitted paper.

If you are choosing between Columbia and some other schools, lets say, 2nd tier or 3rd tier, then obviously the answer will be Columbia. But given NYU and Columbia are in fact very close in many aspects, if I were you, I would consider the factor called RELATIONSHIP. And I would choose NYU.

U know, it is really lucky that you have already started your research projects even before your first semester in PhD. This is something you have to treasure as it will be some very important asset to you when you graduate.

ttfan

以下是引用wiwiana在2008-3-23 23:07:00的发言：

tingting, if i were you, i would pick NYU.

What i think is... the relationship between professors and students, sometimes, is just like the relationship between men and women. Your professor do not want you to choose NYU because of the burden of responsibility. Because he does not want you to blame him in future. Yet it doesnt mean that he does not want you to go NYU. He just does not want you to go NYU because of responsibility. If you really go to NYU, I am sure he will be very happy and he will take very good care of you and your research.

In my opinion, both NYU and Columbia are very good in Marketing. Maybe Columbia is better. But i think the difference is very small as both of them are VERY GOOD SCHOOLS. Honestly having a good mentor/supervisor is more important than the school name and ranking, esp. the reputation and location of two schools are in fact very very close.

What i think is.. .if you go to NYU, the prof will thank and appreciate you a lot. He will be very good to you and will help you A LOT in job market in future. If you go to Columbia, i think, undoubtedly, it will ruin the relationship. Maybe you can find some other good professors in Columbia, but you never know.. there is always a risk when u go to a new place.

I have worked for almost 4 years before application. So I really know how the real world works and I know how important relationship is. Even in academic world, relationship is still something VERY IMPORTANT. You will see your professor in many many occassions. He will also be a journal editor looking at your submitted paper.

If you are choosing between Columbia and some other schools, lets say, 2nd tier or 3rd tier, then obviously the answer will be Columbia. But given NYU and Columbia are in fact very close in many aspects, if I were you, I would consider the factor called RELATIONSHIP. And I would choose NYU.

U know, it is really lucky that you have already started your research projects even before your first semester in PhD. This is something you have to treasure as it will be some very important asset to you when you graduate.

thank u so much! I just sent u a message.