以下是引用Jackie88在2008-2-15 19:39:00的发言:If I can't get my desired offer, i'd like to work in a commercial bank and get some experience. If i like this job, i will work in this industry for a long time or if it does not really suit me , i may consider transfering to another area. Whatever, i may still apply to further my education to strengthen my background and enrich my life after having some work experience. BTW, what's your plan? It will be painful for me if I can not get my desired offer. I myself am not satisfied with my plan B recently because I am still tortured by three options without a decision. In another word, I will have no real actions if I know I am rejected by my dream school now. But I am just tortured by how to make a change in my life not by why I should make a change. So the reason why always gives me courage to face the reality, this is the source of my courage. So , my sincere suggestion is to think more about the reason why you must "strengthen your background and enrich your life " if you still feel panic about your choice. The reason why will never give you answer directly but it will give you courage to chase your final choice. Maybe life is not easy for everyone of us, but we ourself are responsible for our own happiness. Think about the people and thing matter to you in this hard time and good luck. Hope it helps.  |