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遇到难题是依靠自己的知识和经验解决还是听取他人的意见。
Obstacles always exist in our daily lives. What should we do when we confront with difficulties? For many people, the way to face with the difficulties is to combat such difficult problem by their own knowledge and experience of life. However, if it is true- which I have to take my leave to doubt- such seemingly useful method is merely created by the people who are disjoined with reality. Reasoning that in my daily lives, the problems are so complex that it is difficult for us to address them just based on our knowledge and experience. At that time, the suggestion of other people, such as our families and friends can proved to be of vital importance. The following reasons will confirm my perspective.
For one thing, most problems we face up to are not very familiar to us. As a result, we have no related knowledge or useful experience to tackle them. Concern the situation like that is what drives us to put more emphasis on the suggestions of others. The most appropriate case, I believe, is my friend James. James was hailed from a very rich family. Obviously, he never needs to worry about money. Unfortunately, everything changed in his fresh year of college. His father bankrupted as a consequence of the depression. His family had no money to support his tuition of college. At that time, he had no means to help him complete his education because he never suffered this kind of problem. Luckily, his friend Jerry helped him out. Jerry suggested James taking a job and then recommended him to a company where James could get part-time job. Thanks to Jerry, James can earn about 4000 dollars a mouth now. He can use this money not only to complete his education but also to help his family.
Moreover, even we have the experience of combating the problem which we face again. It still can be a tough problem for us. Psychologically speaking hardly can we overcome problems only based on our experience and knowledge, because our emotions, such as sadness, anger and intension, also undoubtedly influent our judgments. When it comes to the situation like this, the advices of others can be more useful and rational. To explain this idea, I would like to draw on my own experience. It was a really hard time when I was cramming for my University Entrance Examination. Virtually, I was in bad shape. I performed extremely badly in my warm-up test. It seems that it is progressively difficult for me to reach my dream that attending one of the top universities in China. To tell the truth, such kinds of problems of studying I have confront with for countless times, but I, under tremendous intension of examination, even do not know what resolution I should use. Fortunately, my friend Jerry gave me a hand. He advised me to relax. Before the day of real exam, he sent me to house with nothing but songs of classic music. Surrounded with piano sound of music, I felt enormous peace and repose. After that he forced me to have a shower. Then I fell to sleep very fast. To my surprise, next day I did so excellent in my real test. My dream also came true: I received the offer from Beijing University. Judging from this case, we can learn how significant the advices are when we confront with adversities.
Based on the evidence I listed above, hardly can I agree that when we face up to tough problems, we should deal with them merely relying on our experience and own knowledge. I believe that accepting others’ suggestions is a much better way to overcome the adversities.
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