北美高龄男的苦恼 30岁以下的勿看

serenathunder

生孩子是到时间了，关键又不是你怀孕，你一样可以读书啊，照顾老婆的事情，你可以请家里的人来帮个忙。

如果是我的话，就继续读书，同时让老婆有小孩，请父母帮忙照顾。你们都老夫老妻了，分开两年，还可以调剂下平淡的婚姻生活，增加新鲜感。要不然就可能会开始左手和右手的故事了。

其实我认为全都可以不耽误的。而读MBA对楼主转型还是很关键的。

[此贴子已经被作者于2007-4-12 17:08:02编辑过]

ptr07

it is a tough call.

welldone2007

If I were you, I would take the MBA full time. Your wife has got job, so you don't have financial pressure. After one year separation, you and your wife will definitely think to have a baby.

In addition, people always think to have baby when they have more free time, but the life never gives that appropriate time.

welldone2007

Just curious. How can a part-time MBA be finished in two years? usually it takes more than than 2 yrs.

babypace

哎，我觉得要孩子太重要了。如果你wife都30+了，时间真容不得蹉跎。我看见有些美国都做到银行VP的，40+了，由于错过了生育年龄，2夫妻也不见得有多快乐。

如果你真能安心在家养花养草的，你可能不适合读那个MBA。

既然你wife是faculty了，一定是时候要孩子。如果你能move去她那边，quit自己工作，索性2年full time MBA，同时可以和她在一起，要个孩子，那是最好的。其实我看你们两个经济上不是问题的。

leon_huang

take your family. feed a kid.

that is the life you should have now, whatever the MBA program ranking, bullshit/

So make your decision now!