Since your baby is too young, it will be idea if some relatvie can come and help you out. Since you and your hubby are not in the city, it will be even hard for you.It will be great if you can move to live together. So the father can do his part. If not, find a live-in nanny who would better to be a very reliable other wise use a nanny-camera to monitor. If still can't find a good nanny, find a very good day care. Once you receive your offer, you can defer it for a year when your baby is a bit older. Don't miss the first three years of your baby, you may regret later on. Send baby to China maybe the last tough heart-breaking choice for both you and your baby. |