[原创]请各位以心比心, 注意自己的言语

atongmu

嗬嗬，chipmunk兄的话永远是那么有道理！

tsljz

同意tiger，sfish和chipmunk的建议和看法。我觉得CD的宗旨之一是分享，大家应该尽量以一种平和的心态来参与，相互多一些理解。有些朋友可能刚刚接触essay，确实摸不着头脑。其实，我们论坛上有很多现成的材料，比如我们的“逐梦访谈系列”等等，从中大家可以得到一些启发。同时大家在问关于essay如何写的时候，是否可以先提出你自己的看法，其实本来这些文章就没有标准答案，所以如果你先提出自己看法的话，其他朋友比较容易发表意见。通过讨论更加容易得到收获。

siebel

Actually, I tried very hard not to delete that post. At last, I thought I'd better leave it to Lao3 Da4 and see what happened.

It's just like a team. I think anyone serious should have the right to kick out the odd one. Otherwise, the real friends will leave. When we leave such posts here, many of our real friends will doubt our ability and the effect of the forum. The same situation happend in GMAT, too. If not those several authorities there answer our questions, no one will come again. If the GMAT is full of the so-called Bullshit(sorry to use this word), people will go for other better resources. Time is valuable. We cannot waste.

In my personal view, I can forgive any mistakes except cheating. I can burden any hard time except wasting time. I believe many of the friends here hold the same attitude. Unfortunately, some #@!$%#!%#$ wasted our time and resource. I'm not meaning the simple or easy questions. These question are very important and intimate because all of us have such questions at the beginning. I'd like to answer any such questions. However, those almost deliberate cheating, I feel very very uncomfortable. Just like there is one bad horse enter our good horse group, or, a cup of feces in a bowl of flavor soup.  轻松略过? To me, it's easy to say.

However, can I judge the attitude of the poster? No. I don't have the right to judge anyone. Even though I doubt it seriously, I still cannot confirm it. So, I leave it, not delete it.

物以类聚，人以群分。If we don't kick out those uncomfortable people, the real friends will not come. The reason for such quarrelling is not the people who point out the cheating, but those who made such contradiction. The key to such unfriendly atmosphere is not to forbid those who feel uncomfortable speaking out, but to try our best to stop the Bullshit posts.

I almost believe that, the day that such Bullshit posts are popular here, is the day we will fail. Ask a kindhearted person to 轻松略过 a bullshit, is just like asking Nanjingers to buy Japanese products. It is not too difficult to accept one, two, or three times. But, there will be no the fourth.

So, I'm regretted I didn't delete the post at the first glance. See, it wasted us so much time again....

qinmiju

清者自清，浊者自浊。但相信对大多数如我这样的初次涉足申请的人来说，CD是一个承载着我们的青春梦想，凝聚斑竹和众人的心血和智慧，给了我们太多温暖和鼓励的地方。那些不协和的声音，当蛛丝一样轻轻抹去；留在心里的，是越来越坚定的理想。

siebel,tsljz,chipmunk,feixue,4FEI,lewis,tiger,sfish......the name list can be added on and on.很难形容看到你们的回帖时我心里时常感受到的力量。永远支持你们！！！

joyoni

afer reading these, i feel i must say something even the hottest part has already gone.

when I was fighting with the Gmat, there was no CD. but i did get a lot of help from another BBS. right now, when I think about getting help, the CD is always my first stop and gradually the last stop. this changing process was step by step but it happened. so everybody here should burden with the responsibility of keeping CD going on and developing.

BTW, about the essay topic, I think it is helpful to discuss a bit here but no one should expect to get a satisfictory answer here. because everyone is a special case and only you can understand yourself the best. I have a suggestion: if you are not quite sure about the meaning of the topic, you can ask it more specific by adding your understanding or pointing the confusing words; if you want to broaden your idea, you should first clear your mind and expect challenge and disagreement here.

just my opinion, maybe not right.

cthd007

hehehe

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chipmunk

Hehe...no eggs, just tomato. Thanks for your compliment, but I think you seemed to over-react a little bit. True, there is always different opinions in the forum, but we're not stupid to attack IP addresses.

cthd007

hehe... Chipmunk bro. it's too early to do my laundry now.

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hoechst

晕, 再说什么呀?这么热闹

chipmunk

Nothing major, just a place to throw tomatoes each other.