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stellaecon, jenery>
One can only say what made the most sense to them. For almost everyone thinking of business school, that has tended to be, "let's wait a few years". For the majority, that is the right decision for them. However, there are some who also say, "let's wait a few years", simply because "everyone says we should wait a few years", as opposed to, "I have reflected about my own situation, know why for some people it may make sense to go straight after school, but for me it doesn't."
For example, both of you, and many of the other posters before, raise VERY GOOD points about recruiting. When I applied for internships in consulting, I did not get a single interview offer. My resume is really nothing to shout about. However, I did not come to business school just to look for a job, so while perhaps I got what I deserved, this wasn't a big deal to me at all. When I talk to alumni, I frequently ask them, what's the #1 thing you wish you had done differently while you were in business school- and 95% of them tell me, "I wish I didn't spend that much time looking for a job." In the class that graduated 2008, almost half have already quit the job that they had coming out of school. When these alumni think back about how they spent almost two years looking for a job that they only did for less than two years, they find themselves regretting a lot.
As a person going to school without work experience, I had very different goals. To me, business school wasn't just about finding a job, an internship, and so on. I am here to build a career. I am here to equip myself with the necessary intellectual, emotional and soft-skill resources to do well- the intellectual comes from the classes; emotional from learning how to listen to myself and understand what I really want, as well as to be brave enough to tell others that I have failed to look for an internship that they may have found impressive; and soft-skills from working with other impressive professionals, in my club involvement.
I've found that two types of people tend to think like me- those without much experience (although not all of them. Some think that they need to compensate, and work doubly or triply hard to get that internship), and those with a lot, >10 years of work experience. I've found that many more experienced people have the same goals as me- they're here not to look for a job, but to build a career. We agree that it doesn't matter as much whether recruiters want to look for us right now- what matters most is whether, in another ten or twenty years, we are in the position, and have the skills, to succeed in the career that we choose.
Because of this, I have had a wonderful, wonderful experience at business school, and am well on the way to meeting all my goals. When I reflect back on my experience, I fear that a few years of working experience would have changed me in a negative way, because I would be very focused on a choice of a job, rather than a career, and I would also use a different set of priorities to choose a job, too. Looking at my classmates, it's stunning how quickly (within one month) they entered Wharton, and immediately abandoned all their diverse dreams of working in non-profit, in sports, in media, in clean-tech, and so on. Instead, 95% of people recruit only for one of the four industries, whether or not they had wanted to do this before business school- Banking, Consulting, PE, VC.
I would say, out of my >800 classmates, I am probably one of less than a hundred, who is pursuing the exact short-term career goal that I had written I would pursue in my application. And that's been the most important thing to me. I strongly believe that if I can't even be honest to myself, I can never expect to be happy. If it comes with needing to tell others, "I'm not doing the jobs you want to do. It's okay if I'm a failure in your eyes", then that's what I have to do. Fact is, I can't please everyone- and given a choice, I'll choose to please myself.
stellaecon> Exactly as you say, "MBA只能读一次,所以有的时候读了还不如不读。" If I had come here with a few years of work experience, and acted exactly like many of my classmates (or even that friend of yours who had gone straight to Wharton and worried only about his job after school) then that to me would have been a complete waste of time and money. I am thankful for the opportunity I've been given to not worry about competing for a job, and instead being able to focus on the fantastic resources both at Wharton, but also at UPenn, and I believe this has been the perfect business school experience for myself. I have learnt so much about myself, about life, and about others in the process, and I wouldn't trade this for the world.
I hope this helps explain why I so passionately persuade others to think clearly for themselves. I think it is obvious why waiting a few years is good for many people- because maturity does tend to increase over time. However, there are inherent advantages to attending business school as a person out of college, who has a different set of priorities. Most people don't understand the case for attending straight out of school, because they've never tried it. I feel fortunate to have done so.
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