MBA和感情之间（女生版）

wingback

以下是引用潜水不说话在2006-1-19 11:47:00的发言：

什么时候跑出来一个马甲了？本人从不用马甲！

咦？我的马甲也有马甲了？

eyiqiong

???马甲？？

robinst

For the love thing, my attitude is always like if it's not strong and persistent enough, to be away from all the seduction of this colorful world, and to remain as the day you are together not matter the space and time intervals between the two, then just let it go without regret.

LOVE I can treasure for life long should be there no matter how the world and the surroundings change between us...like Ba Jin and his beloved...

You can laugh at me that I will remain single for the life, if I am chasing such irrealistic things... Actually I don't care...I'd rather keep looking in vain, than just find one because you are supposed to get one, or you are too old to wait for the right one...

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-1-20 10:31:44编辑过]

robinst

By the way...

I just met a guy, who I am so allured, for the first time in my life...and I am sure who feels the same to me...

However, he just received his 06 admission from MIT Sloan, and also would probably stay in US after the study for one or two years more...I don't know the future between us...I am wondering too...but if a love will be broken so easily by the distance and time, then I will let it go without any regret...

I hv started my MBA application too...not as you thought to just be together with him...actually before I met him I planned for 2008 application, while he just moved up my schedule to 2007 application...It's not I am afraid of the distance between us will make us apart. It is more because I don't want to be left behind him. I want to stand shoulder to shoulder with him, and can support him in all ways...be his loved, partner, friend, and comrade...I mean IF WE HV A FUTURE...

If life is a hard battle, I want to fight with my someone.

jessicaf

If he is also so allured by you, why worry? Why so inconfident? Have you asked him about your love? Be brave...

robinst

以下是引用jessicaf在2006-1-20 11:06:00的发言：
If he is also so allured by you, why worry? Why so inconfident? Have you asked him about your love? Be brave...

Different people hv very different expectation on the love thing...

The only thing I am sure now is that we hv the Two-Way attraction.

The one thing I am not sure, is that I don't know if he holds the same concept in love as I do...

Nothing about brave or not brave... It just happens offen that Attraction and Passion can be gone, especially with the time and distance among... I can believe in myself...but who knows what he will consider to be the best

jessicaf

理解万岁！！！

vacationer

如果真的爱你bf,两年也只不过一瞬间,天涯也变咫尺;如果不那么爱,还是尽早放手,对他对你都有好处.

splendidfish

我的心得就是：感情是两个人互相迁就的维系，这种迁就是时移世易的。一切都在不断变化之中，没有永恒的爱，只有永恒的得不到的爱。

jessicaf

以下是引用splendidfish在2006-1-20 14:26:00的发言：
我的心得就是：感情是两个人互相迁就的维系，这种迁就是时移世易的。一切都在不断变化之中，没有永恒的爱，只有永恒的得不到的爱。

与我心有戚戚焉。。。。。。。

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-1-21 11:39:45编辑过]