推荐信可能赶不上deadline了，怎么办？

freshcder

找了以前的老板写推荐信，一个月前就答应了，但是可能他太忙了，一直拖着没给我写。中间催了几次了也没用。现在写email也不回，打电话给公司，说去度假了，1月4号以后才回来。deadline是6号阿。他度假回来肯定也有很多事要做，不可能马上给我写的。我该怎么办？

王倩倩

做得對呀˙他如果要給你寫早就寫了,不想寫的甭說是一周了,給他一年他也寫不出的˙之前我就遇到了˙我好險是提早準備了,早早決定換人...雖然我並不怪他(我之前那個推薦人是在香港工作的,平時很忙又常常要出國,有一次急著找他一個星期都找不到人,後來才發現原來生病住院了)...之後還是保持聯繫,但是心裡對這人就有底了..

freshcder

谢谢大家的意见。我也准备自己写，让他改一下就好，但是完全不回我的信。我最后还是决定换人了。虽说是他是在do me a favor，但是既然答应了，就应该履行承诺。这么不负责任的人，以后也没必要打交道了。

GoodLuckYou

在deadline 之后1个星期交都不算晚的.我打过电话问

doucevoyage

If you change your recommender last minute (actually, in my opinion, if you change your recommender any time after notification), without good explanation, you risk burning bridges. Afterall, your recommender might already spend time on it without you knowing (showing on the application website). Moreover, it is an agreement you entered from the get go, and your recommender might not take it the positive way if you drop him/her.

My 2 cents again.

王倩倩

我覺得你乾脆換個推薦人好了,之前我也是有個推薦人答應我了但遲遲沒交,把我急的...後來我索性換人...這種沒責任感的人怎樣都不會體會到你的煎熬的

nanirina

I think the idea of you drafting the letter is a good one. I gave my recommnders some ideas in point form , and from there, they were found it much easier to come with the recommendations.

amygreenrain

跟我一样！！我比你还悲剧。今天才跟我说不能给我推荐了。公司审核没有通过。我有一个学校也是6号截止。。

doucevoyage

maybe you can draft the letter for him, and he can make the changes himself before submitting it.

matey2009

紧急联系别的推荐人选呢？