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Do you agree or disagree with the following statement?
Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship.
Some people think that telling a truth in every situation is very difficult to achieve. However, in my opinion, always telling truth is the most important consideration in any relationship. Dishonesty will definitely ruin a relationship no matter what reasons of lying are.
Any relationship relies on trust built through long time. For example, a businessman has reliable relationship with another businessman for year. Trust is the key for their relationship. They have been doing business for years without problem which gradually build a solid relationship between them. They trust each other after the first successful transaction and then they continue a solid business link with each other. However, if some day one realized that the other deceived him in any way, for example, providing products with lower quality compared with the sample product provided or offering bad services which are not in line with what are promised, then he will hesitate to continue doing business with the other. In other words, dishonesty ruins their relationship. Honesty is not only important for business relationship, but also crucial for other relationship, such as family relationships or even relationship between countries.
Take marriage for example, the core of the loved ones are honesty and responsibility. What I believe is that honesty is the most important of the relationship between wife and husband. Honesty is the base of the relationship. Tiger Woods, famous golf player, got divorced because affairs with several girls. He not only ruined the relationship with his family but also ruined the relationship with the public, especially his fans. Another example concerning with family relationship are the relationship between parents and children. Some parents think they can tell lies to their children because children usually have such kind of ability to identify what is the truth. But I do not think it is a good way to keep a sustainable relationship between parents and children. Children finally will realize that their parents did not telling them the truth, and then children will doubt that whether they should trust their parents. That will ruin the relationship between parents and children.
In one word, any relationship will be enhanced with trust while weakened or even ruined by dishonesty. Thus, always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship. |
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发表于 2011-1-12 02:32:45
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