北美高龄男的苦恼 30岁以下的勿看

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lz 在北美读过书，而且工作了这么久，现在知道自己的兴趣所在，且拿到了理想中的offer，这本身是件好事。

如果不注重读书质量，而只是为了一个mba学位而去另外一个地方，估计这两年里lz 的学习生活不会有快乐而言。与其这样，还不如直接去工作得了。

而现在的方向选择决定了以后的就业方向，那么是不是可以想一下，这也是塑造下半生生活的又一个为数不多的机会呢？

每几个星期见一次 lp，已经是很理想的状况了，难道不是么？

有共鸣！My suggestion: don't even think about option 1.

reason #1: It is a lot harder for your LP to get the kind of job she is offered now. On the other hand, you have no problem getting another job in another city as a tech guy.

reason #2: A top 20 is not much different from a top 40. In general, except for the major 7s and UC Berkeley, UCLA, Duke,Ross,Dartmouth,Yale, the rest are about the same. (哦，有人要拍砖了）

Hence, just go to your LP's city and get another job, then go for the MBA there.

My situation is similar: I want to go to another city for a top 7 MBA, but my LP doesn't want me to leave. I can understand her feelings.

Wish you the best!

I think the option1 is OK or you can give up the idea to get a MBA totally. If your business starts off in the next 2 years, you don't really need a MBA to prove anything to anyone.

I think the only concern for you two maybe to have a kid.

I don't think it is good for your wife to get pregnant in the first year after she lands her job.And it take 10 months to have a baby (It is hard for her too if you are not around when she is pregnant.). If she can take the hard ball, you two can have a baby together once you graduate from your option1 school.  

你应该多做点 research。我知道像 Purdue Chicago 的 part-time  每月去一两个周末。你在哪里上班无所谓，无非多出些飞机票和旅馆钱。

我觉得这两个option都不错啊...

1.其实2年一眨眼就过去了,而且你们都在美国,飞一下也就几小时,况且 MBA学校和专业都是lz感兴趣的

2.楼主的目标既然是自己做公司,那么人脉比课堂所学更重要,排名40和20差别也不大

楼主最主要的忧郁是不想和老婆分开吧...那就follow your heart吧

既然年薪八萬和12萬生活質量差不多了, 你還需要猶豫唸Top20 或是 Top 40 ?

唸出來不都差不多  ?

家庭總是第一位的﹐除非你不愛你的老婆。還是搬去一起住吧。讀MBA可以飛的﹐累是累一些。

另外這些天微軟的軟件工程師去太空旅遊了。他沒有MBA學位。

先不要去读了,边工作边要个孩子...

lz就想除非top3或top7,就不屑去了...

可能有点aQ,不过这也没什么...这么想想心里就会舒服一些..

人生在世,我觉得幸福的家庭是力量的源泉

Family first, forget the f***ing MBA

I am dirty too.