好难过………..chinese destiny?

don't worry, your time will come

remember, no good thing comes easy, or it can't be a good thing

小妹不要难过，这贴是你自己的遭遇吗？怎么这么乱。看完，大概也能明白。

俗话说：人比人，气死人。你的这个情况里面，从你的表述里来看主要是一些不公平，是不是，native speaker 干得少，拿得多，爬得快，，，，

不妨阿Q一下。这样心情会好些，愤愤不平对你没有任何帮助。短期内是不会改变的。香港的情况不知道，至少在北京的所谓外企里，很多老外和ABC都只是些西方的la-ji，在欧美发达国家找不到像样的工作，才到中国来的，再者，如果实在不开心，换一家公司好了，这样用人的公司，我看好不到哪里去。

呵呵，一孔之见。随手写来。

嗯，社会现实。

有幸认识一位五百强的亚洲区副总裁，台湾人，到美国以后进的公司。对我们（几个管理专业本科生）说，想求得职业发展，别进外企，因为人家只用自己人做高管，外国人（也就是local chinese）上升是有瓶颈的，能力再强也没有用。他老人家虽然是台湾出身，但是却是以美国人的身份进的公司，从美国派到亚洲，才能做到那个位置的。

Sorry for the mess...Tried to amend it serveral times...

Don;t know why the system will keep popping out the same sentence twice...

SOrry for the mess again people.! And thanks for your advise..

Welcome everyone's feedbacks!

"....很多老外和ABC都只是些西方的la-ji，在欧美发达国家找不到像样的工作，才到中国来的..."

Absolutely right, except those on the top!

the networking is very important, you may not know his family background...so many IB guys joined the industry because of family network...what if his father is a big client?

If you really confirm this destiny, just challenge it. Tell your boss you wish to take the leader position, and talk with him about his requirements. Of course, you may apply your own skill to do so. Good luck.