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 Many people will be in a dilemma when it comes to the paradox that whether they will like to marry somebody who is similar to them or not. Some people maintain that it 's much more favorable to get married with someone who is similar, while others may hold that marrying to a person who displays a high level of diversities to oneself is preferable. Though similar person will exhibit more harmony at the begging of the marriage, yet marriage with a diverse person is regarded as an eternal and stable one.

  
     The criterion to select a spouse varies from one to one, such as social status, characteristics and so on so forth. Under a potential and instinct psychology of human being, people appear to show more interests on something familiar, due to the sense that feel more safe and more stable. As a matter of fact, a substantial amount of facts have indicated that lots of people marry and also divorce by virtue of similarities. This simply results from people get tired of each other mostly due to that there will not exist something fresh or fascinating that happens to their life as time goes by. Thus, similarity is like a cup of purified water without any taste.

  In this sense, we ought to empower the priority to diversities when people ponder their marriage. In fact, diversities between the couples will oftentimes leave a space for them to familiarize with each other since there are different in various aspect. The diverse thinking pattern between spouse may typically exemplify this viewpoint. Suppose that the husband display more logical thinking than his wife while the wife possess more emotional thinking, in case they would like to make a vital decision whether or not they would give birth to a child, their different thinking pattern would play a crucial and helpful element within the process of decision-making.

  Appealing as the perspective of diversities between spouses are, something in common should be shared between the couples as well. Otherwise, their life will definitely result in many inevitably endless conflicts.

  In conclusion, the perspective that a person is supposed to match a spouse who is diverse from him/her is much more favorable.