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题目是能不能从朋友的类型判断一个人~
IT's undeniable that two persons who differ from each other, or more precisely, have supplementary personalities, are more likely to become friends. For example, in the popular TV series of <friends>, two closed girls, Monica and Rachel, have opposite personalities. The former on is aggressive and easy to irritate, while the latter one is almost a pushover. Such cases are abundant in our daily life. Admittedly, we cannot judge one person's all characteristics by looking into his friend. However, it's really superficial to conclude that people cannot know someone better by evaluating his friends because they share different features. As far as I'm concerned, to a great extent, your friend is a mirror of yourself.
Firstly, we can judge a person by looking into his friend's hobbies. People tend to conceal some of their characteristics because they just want to create a certain image to the public. For example, Professor Green is extremely strict and rarely smiles to us students during the class time. We all consider him as a conservative man, or a nerd. To my surprise, when I was having a chat with an easy-going professor after class, he told me that Green is the most athletic person among the friends group. They often played basketball together and Green always scored the highest for his team. He is the real VIP. Sometimes we can hardly see a person from an all-around perspective, because the roles we play in the society stretch the distances between us. However, friends is nearly the most closed groups accompanying you, and you are eager to do the things you're mostly willing to do when you get together. Common interest is the base of the establishment of friendship, and it is also the supporting evidence for us to judge a person from his friends.
Secondly, we can judge a person by evaluating his friend's personality. It's impossible that two friends are totally similar, but at least, they share the most fundamental qualities. Again let's look into the case of Monica and Rachel. Even though Monica is much more aggressive than Rachel, they are equally kind and warm-hearted. What's more, the differences between each other gradually fade as they spend more time maintaining the friendship. Monica learns how to consider other's feelings from Rachel, and Rachel learns the independent spirit from Monica. In a lot of novels, authors are fond of the story that an old man and a small kid have become closed friends. If the old man worships the naive and innocent qualities in the kid while the kid finds the old man quite interesting and humorous, the age gap is not a of problem.
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