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Where do we learn from? Which is more important, from friends or from parents? This is not a one word question. As i see, to answer it, we should divide people into two groups, that means it depends on in which group they are, children or adults. Children learn from their parents, but adults learn from their friends. As we all know, children especially little boys and girls have no exact judgement about the world. Children's friends are children, too. So what they can learn from each other? For instance, what's in children's mind when the stars are shining? Maybe the boy considers them as toys, while the girls view them as beautiful clothes. In my opinion, this is not the right way they should learn from. On the other hand, parents at this time always teach their children patiently. That's why i put children in the parents-group. However, as for adults, the most obvious reason of putting them in the friends-group is that they do not live and communicate with parents often. As they move away from their falimies, they rarely learn things from parents. Instead, for they spend much time with friends, they communicate, chat with each other, and join parties together, adults share the opinions on different events, and they have the abilities to diccuss them with deep thought. So from my perspective of view, adults, not children, learn from friends. In one word, to say simply people learn from parents or friends is not fair or sensible. Whenever we discuss this topic, we should better identify which group they are in.
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-9-3 21:32:21编辑过] |