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Should people do things they do not enjoy? People are born to be social animals,not one single person can choose to live by themselves without relying on others for anything,thus a person do not have the complete freedom to choose something without looking for advice and former experience from other people especially seniors and in this case there may be many occasions that we do not get to do all things we like therefore sometimes we have to do things we do not enjoy.I agree with this statement completely and will give examples and details to justify my point of view. First of all,doing things we do not like is a process of learning how to behave and form a better personality which will lead us to a better human being. Society is formed with people who are advanced animals ,we own cognitive ability and are able to establish various kinds positive relationships with others.All these will not be achieved if we do not recieve education which in some way contain regulations and transformation.When i was a little kid i was vey naughty and often did things provoking my mom,she had to talk to me for like thousands of times and show me how a good kid behave and gradually i learnt all the manners and turn out just right.part of me hated to be controlled when i was a kid, nevertheless now i can recognize the importance of doing things that we do not like otherwise i had the risk of growing up to be harmful person. Moreover ,doing things we do not enjoy will cultivate us to be more patient and enduring. Nobody wants to spend time in doing things that they do not like but precisely it is the way to build our patience which in a long run will exert positive influence on relationship building and problem solving. I once had problems talking to my grandpa because we have too many gaps between us and we could hardly understand each other ,my father told me to talk to grandpa more often so our relationship could be promoted,at first it is kind of annoying because i can barely find any topic we share interests in .Few weeks later i surprisingly found me and grandpa became more intimate and i turn out to be more patient when communicating with people i do not share any common with. In order to do things we enjoy we have to go through the things we do not enjoy or even hate to do.A scientist once said you have to do thousands of things you do not like before you can do the things you enjoy.You want to buy a new ipad device you have to work at the coffee shop 8 hours a day.you want to go to an IVY university ,you have to focus on your study and do tons of coursework every day.you want to be a model,you have to keep your diet discreetly and never eat fries or ice c ream for the rest of your life.You have to suffer from doing things you do not like in order to achieve tings you really enjoy. Admittedly ,doing somethings we do not enjoy is annoying and not easy, nevertheless the benifits it brings could be huge and overall long-lasting.all in all, although some people may still remain unconvinced, the reasons I have analyzed could at least make them more aware of the various dimensions of this issue under discussion. | 
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发表于 2013-4-7 21:54:44
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