【每日阅读训练第四期——速度越障21系列】【21-14】文史哲

coconutmi

Speed:
1.03:02
handrail扶手
sneak 鬼鬼祟祟的，鬼祟地做；
2.02:17  rest of 2 02:09
slur 污点
scarf用围巾围
ritual 仪式，仪式的
pal 朋友；结为朋友
halt 停止，使停止
van 苍白；使苍白
fizzle 失败；嘶嘶声；
shuffle洗牌；推卸
dampen 潮湿；抑制
heartfelt 真诚的
3.2:36
solicit 征求；恳求
4.1:47
reprimand 谴责
nag 唠叨；使烦恼
scold 责骂
5.1：56

Obstacle
5：40
The "bloomeang" ,which more and more new graduats can not live independently, is common in U.S.today.Parents have to face their "adult children"who may as old as 34 everyday which is pretty challenging for the family since they have their own idea and habit.
Financial adviser suggests that the young people should give themselves deadline for independent living and try to not used to live in a comfortable life while at home. And the good thing is parents always encourage but not scold their children for living together.

dingdingtop

20130708
T1:2'03''42 (342 words)
A obsolete wood ladder() which is build on the cliff is attracting climbers, although it was prohibitted to climb by local policy guards for the sake of security. The view, however, is pretty good once the climber get's to the top.
T2: 2'22''50 (437 words)
It would be better to leave a party like ghost, aka Irish leave, to avoid the unpleasant moment of saying goodbye.
T3:  1'43''17(324 words)
Some study shows that too much or too little advices are somewhat damaging to marriage satisfaction and advices behavior is more important on advisor asker side.
T4：2‘12’‘03 (374 words)
The wife always takes the husband's advice as sacasm and the husband always takes the wife's advice as repremanded. The reason is that the 2 are too familiar with each other's weakness and vulnerability.
T5:3‘01’‘97( 453 words)
Advices on how to deliver and accept advices between couples:
1. Ask before deliver
2. Say "thanks" after be given.
3. Ask someone else to deliver the message
4. Don't give deliver untiled the other part asked and really wants to get an advice.


Ob:4'59''65(1296 words)
Main idea: Problems with adult children and what to do with them.
Attitude: opposing and constructive
Structure:
     - The phenomenon of adult children and the problem with them.
     - Ways for parents to get rid of adult children
        - Set a time limit
        - Don't make them too comfortable
        - Charge a rent
        - Be supportive

vicnan

好像没读过！？

Jonathanluck

time 1: 2:00  intro of how to climb stairway heaven
time 2: 2:43; rest 2:39 different way of saying goodbye in a party and what ghost goodbye is
time 3:
time 4:
time 5: the reason why people sometimes do not appreicate the advises their spouse offers and what the proper way it is to offer advises

越障7:06 Even though you allow your adults kids to stay home after graduation, you'd better do something to encourage them to be independent.

Jonathanluck

time 1: 2:00  intro of how to climb stairway heaven
time 2: 2:43; rest 2:39 different way of saying goodbye in a party and what ghost goodbye is
time 3: 2:07
time 4: 2:33
time 5: 2:55 the  reason why people sometimes do not appreicate the advises their spouse offers and what the proper way it is to offer advises

越障7:06 Even though you allow your adults kids to stay home after graduation, you'd better do something to encourage them to be independent.

yaoyiqing1616

1. 1'33'' The Ha'iku stairs form a mountain hiking trail ,which is hard to travel though its steel segements were repaired in 2002. Anway, the beautiful sunrise scenery is a reward for your efforts.

2. 2'14'' Ghosting——leaving without saying goodbye is surprisingly polite and appreciated. There are also other versions of different nations.

3. 1'46'' unexpected study: unsolicited advices hurt marriage most. 2 subset conclusions: 1) how advice receivers rather than giver feels affect relationship more. 2) men suffer more when little advice is give.

4. 1'47'' spouses often see meaningful advices as criticism because they think they know each other well. In particular, men felt scolded and women felt reprimanded.

5. 2'16'' tips about advice-giving. 1) Make sure what kind of support you or the other need. 2) say thanks to unsolicited advices and speak out what you really want. 3) timing and tone are important as well.

6. 4'21'' practical advices for parents on how to help adult childs regroup and move out: 1) set time frames. 2) charge rents, usually 30% of their living costs. 3) build constructive discomforts. 4) Be supportive for thier movements.

今天的文章看得都有感而发啊！中国孩子更多是虽然精神上想独立，但很多行动上力不从心，如果家长再各种点火over protection and guidence。。。真不知该支持文化差异，我们做我们就好，还是真的好好反思independent life and education forms

AceJ

cloverlisa 发表于 2013-7-7 22:42

1.1 2'20
1.2 2'45
1.3 4'60

第一次回帖也不知道是不是这样呢，第一篇比较简单，后面就各种单词不认识，各种跳读，读完木有感觉，就记得核心词。。。不知道怎样才算有效呢

我之前也碰到和你一样的问题（当然现在也会有），我的解决方法是
1，Active Reading，就是说你不要把它当成阅读训练，而是当成吸收知识，我们平常都会阅读，例如看报纸，你在看的时候脑子里想的是这传递了什么信息？对我有什么帮助？ 其实读英文也是一样，例如Speed 3-5将夫妻间如何有效建议的，如果你谈恋爱了或者结婚的话，就可以想想自己是不是也有这样的问题，文章给的建议对你是不是有帮助
2，在Active Reading时，碰到第一眼读不懂的句子，记录下来，事后一句一句的去了解，为什么这里没读懂，是单词不认识，句型结构没看懂，还是某个习惯表达没认出来，一点点累积，这样你的阅读能力就会逐步提升

个人见解，仅供参考，多多讨论哈

AceJ

jay871750293 发表于 2013-7-8 08:50
hi，cloverlisa，欢迎加入小分队~~

我觉得如果速度和理解两者不能同时兼顾的时候，我建议理解优先。以我 ...

Jay的这期其实已经很Nice啦，相比于其他几期单词不是很Bug，嘘。。。。不要让其他几位NN听到。。。

LUCY小可

2'33
2'50
2'13
2'43
1'58
8'21
好棒的建议！

jay871750293

AceJ 发表于 2013-7-8 12:40
我之前也碰到和你一样的问题（当然现在也会有），我的解决方法是
1，Active Reading，就是说你不要把它当 ...

谢谢AceJ对active reading的详细阐述，
对于第一点深有同感！！
第二点我认为是精读的一种方法，对于提升阅读应该会有很大帮助的！（不过精读这方面我一直都比较水...）

嘻嘻，在第四页吐槽不一定安全哟~~~