real "jun zi" comes over and goes away as wind, saying nothing, just watching, never invovling and leaveing everthing to be judged by anybody else, according to our culture. so we all are not real "jun zi". I have no humor to judge others and hope not to be judged by others, particularly those who have no good intention. Anyway, mooncake and lukrenee were right, I indeed need to make my english better, otherwise I will be jeered at again. see you guys three monthes later.
judging from your manners, i venture that you are not a girl. If you are, then you are the girl who never understand what is the most beautious characteristic of women. how odd.