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Nowadays, there’s an increasing number of people who are lack of deep communication with others. One of the most important causes ofthat they don’t pay much attention to building a strong, solid friendship. Instead of making more and more friends, we should investthe same amount time onto keeping our oldfriends, the most intimate friends youmight have.
A deep communication is not just about helpingus know each other better. In many situations, thatwill let us know a large amount of information we didn’t know before. For instance,Jon and I made a study team in the past days, reading some articles together, discussingabout difficult problems, chatting in English if we’d like to do. One day, wemodified the essays for each other. He’s good at using native words and phrasesto express his thinking. In this progress, I learn many cool and usefulsentences, and even realize how to write an essay like a native speaker. I will thank a lot for this kind of deep communication with Jon for all things I learn through it are just more impressive than those learnt myself.
Admittedly, making new friends can help usknow many people from various fields. That will broaden our horizon, help usget access to a large of information. However, we already have many new friends, and if we stillkeeps focusing on develop new friends, it should be time-consuming. In mymiddle school, for instance, my classmate Kitty always spent the whole nightchatting with people. There’re many friends to her in almost every grade andclass. Yes, he might be able to become the popular star in our school, but sowhat?! I just don’t think it’s a good way to cherishher study life. In my opinion, he has lost the most important pleasure of personal improvement, learningnew stuffs.
Even though both two points are not takeninto account, at least, in the most difficult situations, our real, best friendrather than the new ones will stand out and giveus a hand. If you might fail some test in the end though you’ve prepare for along time, from day to night. At that time, your heart might be full ofhelplessness, shadow and darkness. Who will come out to help you? The answer isyour old and best friend. They will clap you on the back and say “If you tryyour best, there’s nothing to regret”. If you stay in the hospital, your friendwill come there though he has a lot of business should do. She might accompanyyou on the bed side, listening carefully yourcomplaint and sickness, cooking some dishes, chatting with you as a sweetest, closestfriend. This solid, strong friendship can only be built when you’re taking care of it through a very a long-term time, and devoting all yourself into it.
To make a new friend you can know a singleperson. To keep an old friend you can get arelationship.
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