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It’s impossible to be completely honest toyour friends.
Tips:
1. 适当的谎言有助于人际交往。比如说好听的话：既不会影响到什么，又可以让大家都很开心。
2. 完全的诚实可能会让一些事情变得很难解决，比如说：对于生病的朋友，面对伤心地朋友。
3. （让步段）虽然诚实是一个非常优秀的品质，但是在某些情况下并不一定要完全诚实。举例子：生病了，如果保持完全诚实的后果。。。


When facing the dilemma whether or not to behonest with your friends, everyone has their own opinion. Some of them may holdthe idea that we should always be honest, because it’s the most importantpersonality. They may think that only the honesty between friends can make ourfriendship last forever. However, I hold the contrast opinion that we don’t needto always be honest, that is, we should judge the circumstance to decidewhether we should keep honest. Reasons are as follows.
Firstly, appropriate lie lead to our sociallife more harmony. The world around us is not as simple as we think; sometimes weneed some lies to please those people around us, no matter our parents or ourfriends. For example, when my best friend bought a new coat yesterday and sheis taking on it and let me give some advice about her taste. As long as the coatis ok to suit for her, I am very glad to appreciate her new coat and speakhighly of her taste, even though her taste is not as perfect as I said. BecauseI know that now that she has bought and shows it, what she wants from me is praises and appreciates. And inthis circumstance, some white lie may be lead our friendship more hardly and initiate.
Secondly, completely honest may lead somethinghard to deal with. In some circumstance, such as facing a friend who is sufferthe illness, or some thorny things that hard to speak frankly, we can choose togive friends a white lie. I think this kind of lie can make them feel betterand even appreciate your kind than frankly speaking. For instance, when I was ahigh school student, one of my best friends Amy got a serious illness, so shehad to go to the hospital and stayed there for a period. Unfortunately, hergrandfather also got a seriously sick at the same time. In order to make herfeel comfortable, I decided not to tell her the truth about her grandfather. Andafter she recovered from the thorny illness, I told her that I hide the truthabout her grandfather’s condition. She didn’t blame me. In the contrary, sheeven thanks my kind to take care of her feelings and conditions. So a white liemust get our friend forgives, I promise.
Of course, honesty is the most important personalitywhen get along with friends. We should promise to be honest almost time exceptsome specific circumstance. Now that we are friends, what we need isn’t onlysome appreciation and praise, what we also need is share some harsh feelings weare suffering with each other. So we should keep the balance between the honestand the white lie. Otherwise, too much lie may lead our friends feel disgustedor too much honesty may lead some difficult things happen.
According to what I have stated above, it’ssafe to say that we might not have to keep honest all the time, in somespecific circumstance appropriate lie may lead the world more beautiful.