越来越纠结。。。去还是不去。。。

Knockoff

Joey.... you don't have feelings....

我觉得LZ还是感情重要吧。能够拿到TOP3的通常都挺牛的吧。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

-- by 会员 JoeyTribbiani (2011/3/6 12:27:37)

jarlin

其实这个问题 男生和女生跟帖里显示出了一定的区别

如果分男生和女生对这件事情投票 可能会显示出大家想法上的差异

Knockoff

肥J。。。。。哥表示对你无语

hahaha, i agree with WendyT!!! obviously, lz did not trust her BF and it doesn't matter how much he loves you, what matters is how much lz loves him. relationship is not supposed to be built on lies, but trust!

mba.
you didn't even tell him about your application or offer yet? it really doesn't matter whether he is able to make it throught the 2 years. the point is, you don't love, or trust him enough to share such an important decision in your life with him. you must have your reasons not to do so but judging from the result you are so not ready to spend your life with this guy. it is you, not him, girl. just imagine, what a happy moment it was when you recieved the admission letter, and you just couldn't share it with your "boyfriend"? come on! what kind of relationship it is? dump him. it's gonna be good for both of you.

-- by 会员 WendyT (2011/3/6 10:03:56)

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ls的经验之谈啊

-- by 会员 Knockoff (2011/3/6 13:19:00)

-- by 会员 肥jajson (2011/3/6 13:22:35)

maurise

LZ就把这事儿和男朋友说了吧 不管去不去 人家作为你的伴侣 总是有权利知道这件事的

不过没准得吵一架 我想任何一个男人 被这么大的事儿蒙在鼓里 都没法心平气和

LZ现在要做的 就是速速和男朋友说明情况 然后要是吵了裂痕了 你就更有理由说服自己MBA了

也许对方并没有这么需要你 事儿摊开来说 一切都好办 到时回CD同众多热心观众分享下结果就成

scratte

什么都要证据，动不动拽个英文单词出来
离怨妇不远了

-- by 会员 ppeema (2011/3/6 13:11:22)

我证我的，我怨我的，又没要您老赏个笑脸给我瞧，您鸡冻个啥呀。

偶尔看人拽个英文单词您有意见就别上论坛了，至少我也没拽个GRE单词出来是不是，哦不对，应该是"美国研究生入学考试"单词。

改天要不这样，您想拽古文咱就拽古文，想拽白话咱就拽白话，想拽英文咱就拽英文，一来二去三翻四复五颜六色七纵八横，平仄相对，音韵和谐，一定乐趣无穷呀

kongkong57

haha, kongkong, i like women who have men's dating morals

去，学校就一个，男人多的是。另外问一下这个男人是top3吗？ （大家不要砸砖！）

-- by 会员 kongkong57 (2011/3/6 10:40:46)

-- by 会员 Knockoff (2011/3/6 13:21:43)

就是就是，咱多爷们啊！

ppeema

什么都要证据，动不动拽个英文单词出来
离怨妇不远了

-- by 会员 ppeema (2011/3/6 13:11:22)

我证我的，我怨我的，又没要您老赏个笑脸给我瞧，您鸡冻个啥呀。

偶尔看人拽个英文单词您有意见就别上论坛了，至少我也没拽个GRE单词出来是不是，哦不对，应该是"美国研究生入学考试"单词。

改天要不这样，您想拽古文咱就拽古文，想拽白话咱就拽白话，想拽英文咱就拽英文，一来二去三翻四复五颜六色七纵八横，平仄相对，音韵和谐，一定乐趣无穷呀

-- by 会员 scratte (2011/3/6 14:06:33)

你也就能这样寻找乐趣了

bokchoy0925

MBA for sure....if he doesn't support your decision, then he probably isn't the one for you to begin with. BUT, why did you keep everything from him? If you guys were really that close, he should at least know that you applied. Maybe there is some trust issue to begin with? If you come to the US and he is there - unless you are married to each other and even you are married to each other, long distance will kill the established bond. You will meet new ppl and he will too. Just cut the chase now and break it off. It is not gonna last.