别拍我，只是不想被剩下-北美哪个学校单身的男生多啊？

taozike

这帖子好长呢，看了13页，先占个位置，嘿嘿
祝CD上的姐妹出国好运，不管找到是外国内还是本土男，只要是适合自己就OK
我也不想当剩女

felix_zheng

呵呵，看帖子长度就知道时下“剩女”好火:-) ！

lennyrichard

还有160贴到1000楼

cdo

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

一个人忙就已经很困难了，总希望另一个能够空一点，这样两个人才能起码凑出点时间在一起。

其实，投行对个人外表还是有不低要求的，所以大投行里很多女的analyst真的是很hot....太可惜了。。

-- by 会员 stq (2010/5/24 16:37:05)

没那么夸张了，我就是analyst混出来的，我觉得美女/帅哥出现的比例和普通人群差不多，认识些作PR德，倒是都不错，还有本科毕业作私人银行的，很多长得不错的。

waitingtoexhale

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

一个人忙就已经很困难了，总希望另一个能够空一点，这样两个人才能起码凑出点时间在一起。

其实，投行对个人外表还是有不低要求的，所以大投行里很多女的analyst真的是很hot....太可惜了。。

-- by 会员 stq (2010/5/24 16:37:05)

没那么夸张了，我就是analyst混出来的，我觉得美女/帅哥出现的比例和普通人群差不多，认识些作PR德，倒是都不错，还有本科毕业作私人银行的，很多长得不错的。

-- by 会员 cdo (2010/5/25 1:38:59)

偶倒是听说在IB里漂亮的要么就是analyst level, 因为还年轻水灵, 要么就是VP往上了,因为有更多的钱砸去保养, 估计中间的比较惨, 前不着村, 后不着店~~~

hissom

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

一个人忙就已经很困难了，总希望另一个能够空一点，这样两个人才能起码凑出点时间在一起。

其实，投行对个人外表还是有不低要求的，所以大投行里很多女的analyst真的是很hot....太可惜了。。

-- by 会员 stq (2010/5/24 16:37:05)

没那么夸张了，我就是analyst混出来的，我觉得美女/帅哥出现的比例和普通人群差不多，认识些作PR德，倒是都不错，还有本科毕业作私人银行的，很多长得不错的。

-- by 会员 cdo (2010/5/25 1:38:59)

前两天刚去一个conference，做ir和capital intro的全是金发美女！

hissom

super agree. guys feel like they need to be put on your blackberry in order to be considered, and that is a huge deterrence. Haven't seen any colleagues who find boyfriends while working as analysts/associates, but several male bankers got married.

-- by 会员 teacherkoo (2010/5/23 14:38:45)

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

One more here.
My high school classmate went to AIG in HK for summer intern and told me that she just got panic while seeing their female 50+ MD still going out every week for blind date. She quit banking job, moved to CA and finally got a  bf and successfully got married. She said that was the smartest decision she has ever made hoho.

orchidq

super agree. guys feel like they need to be put on your blackberry in order to be considered, and that is a huge deterrence. Haven't seen any colleagues who find boyfriends while working as analysts/associates, but several male bankers got married.

-- by 会员 teacherkoo (2010/5/23 14:38:45)

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

One more here.
My high school classmate went to AIG in HK for summer intern and told me that she just got panic while seeing their female 50+ MD still going out every week for blind date. She quit banking job, moved to CA and finally got a  bf and successfully got married. She said that was the smartest decision she has ever made hoho.

-- by 会员 hissom (2010/5/25 12:43:49)

顶这个！！！！觉悟的及时很重要~~~~

Cortega

女人的年龄是个坎，到了30左右再打扮在婚姻市场上的竞争力也比不过20岁左右的黄花大闺女了，男人相比女人毕竟是用下半身思考的时候多些，呵呵

super agree. guys feel like they need to be put on your blackberry in order to be considered, and that is a huge deterrence. Haven't seen any colleagues who find boyfriends while working as analysts/associates, but several male bankers got married.

-- by 会员 teacherkoo (2010/5/23 14:38:45)

Sadly agree with this as well.  All the female senior officers I see (in IBs or PE/HFs) either met their husbands really early (actually a lot of them met their husbands during analyst training) or met them during business school.  If you have graduated from business school and you are still single, well, good luck.  Most guys in finance rather marry school teachers, HR girls, and etc.  I know this one female VP who was single (maybe age 35?).  She got laid off in '08, then finally found a guy, got married and had a baby all within less than two years...

-- by 会员 REgirl07 (2010/5/23 15:34:30)

One more here.
My high school classmate went to AIG in HK for summer intern and told me that she just got panic while seeing their female 50+ MD still going out every week for blind date. She quit banking job, moved to CA and finally got a  bf and successfully got married. She said that was the smartest decision she has ever made hoho.

-- by 会员 hissom (2010/5/25 12:43:49)

顶这个！！！！觉悟的及时很重要~~~~

-- by 会员 orchidq (2010/5/25 13:09:50)

REgirl07

One more here.
My high school classmate went to AIG in HK for summer intern and told me that she just got panic while seeing their female 50+ MD still going out every week for blind date. She quit banking job, moved to CA and finally got a  bf and successfully got married. She said that was the smartest decision she has ever made hoho.

-- by 会员 hissom (2010/5/25 12:43:49)

That's just sad.  If I were a 50 yr old single MD, I would just give up trying to find a suitable husband and just date hot youngger guys instead, haha.  Hey guys do it...

Some girls really don't age well with this job; it's scary to see sometimes.  But some of the best female performers I know are also some of the best looking ones.  They are just crazy people that can do everything  - they work, work out, eat right, somehow find the time to go get their hair/nails done, and always dress nicely.