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时间不到十五天了，越算越紧张，现在恳求大家是无情地打击，有什么问题尽管提，一定要说狠话 Some young adults want independence from their parents as soon as possible. other young adults prefer to live with their families for a longer time. Which of these situations do you think is better? Use specific reasons and examples to support your opinion
With the diverse understanding of independence, people give different attitudes towards it. some people will claim that moving out of home symbolizes your independence, while I hold little confidence on it. Among the countless factors, I would only explain following conspicuous reasons First, living with families does not mean dependence, while living away from family does not mean independence. Independence is something that truly shows a person's capacity for living. The capacity includes the ability to make a financial balance, to control one's behavior without parent's supervision, to make a appropriate decision when facing emergence, etc. as you find what I cited above that you could accomplish at ease, you are qualified to live by your own.
Second, why young adult want independence from their families as soon as possible, more freedom and more private space are surely to be put at first place. However, living away from parents ensures you acquire both of the desired aspects? Definitely no! If you could afford to rent a apartment by yourself, you needn't to handle relationship with your roommates, so you needn't to worry someone living in the same roof would spy your privacy resembling what your parents once did. Or, when you go out of money with rough plan, you have to turn to your parents as money aid. By thinking about these, do you really feel moving out is equivalent to independence. in addition, living with parents whose guide always leads you to be more mature as a real adult. on the basis of reducing daily issue budget, living with parents is another way to practice your mental independence. During the living, you could have exchange with parents, sometimes you may change a lot to adjust to the ambience or even to persuade them accept your value of life. both of you would have a deeper recognition about each other from the daily common talks and making of important decisions. to live with families for a longer time, I do not mean to live with family as long as one could. No doubly, living with parents also result in some shortcomings, such as too depend on dad and mom may lead to a longer time for you to adapt to the outside of world. Nevertheless, I persist the advantages overweight the disadvantages taking what I indicate above. | 
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发表于 2007-10-27 14:42:00
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