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这篇觉得比较难写，提纲都想了好久啊 Agree or disagree：Letting a friend make mistake is better than doing something that may destroy the friendship. In this competitive world, it is difficult to find a true friend, so having a true friend is so lucky and we need to valuate it. When our best friends are on the edge of making mistake, some people will choose to stop giving their opinions if there is chance to destroy the friendship, while some choose to remind their friends that they are going to make mistake. However, in my opinion, I would like to agree with the latter, since I think the true friend is who will always remind us making mistake no matter in what situation.
In this competitive world, it is difficult to find a true friend, so having a true friend is so lucky and we need to valuate it. When our best friends are on the edge of making mistake, some people will choose to stop giving their opinions if there is chance to destroy the friendship, while some choose to remind their friends that they are going to make mistake. However, in my opinion, I would like to agree with the latter, since I think the true friend is who will always remind us making mistake no matter in what situation. On one hand, true friends will be always for friends’ own goods, even it may affect their profit or destroy the friendship. When we are going to make mistake, which means it will hurt our profit, true friends, instead of unfolding the mistake, will stand up and remind us. For example, one of my best friends, Andy, wanted to cheat in an examination since he had not prepared well. In this occasion, as his best friend, I should remind him that he was going to make a big mistake and cheating in the examination will have a big influence in his later development, such as kicking out from the school. Although I knew that it may destroy our friendship if I didn't help him, I considered that I was doing the right thing since I was for his own good. Luckily, he followed my suggestion and tried his best in the examination. So, I not only kept a friendship well but also helped my friend.
On one hand, true friends will be always for friends’ own goods, even it may affect their profit or destroy the friendship. When we are going to make mistake, which means it will hurt our profit, true friends, instead of unfolding the mistake, will stand up and remind us. For example, one of my best friends, Andy, wanted to cheat in an examination since he had not prepared well. In this occasion, as his best friend, I should remind him that he was going to make a big mistake and cheating in the examination will have a big influence in his later development, such as kicking out from the school. Although I knew that it may destroy our friendship if I didn't help him, I considered that I was doing the right thing since I was for his own good. Luckily, he followed my suggestion and tried his best in the examination. So, I not only kept a friendship well but also helped my friend. On the other hand, sometimes, our friends may be angry with us when we tell them they are making mistake. However, I don't think that it can be an excuse to conceal the fact from our friends. As their true friends, people should be frankly. Perhaps, they will hate you for a certain period of time, but several years later they may find out that it is for their own good. As long as we are right and for our friends' own goods, we do not need to hastate to tell our friends true. Therefore, the possibility to destroy friendship is not an excuse to let our friends make mistake.
On the other hand, sometimes, our friends may be angry with us when we tell them they are making mistake. However, I don't think that it can be an excuse to conceal the fact from our friends. As their true friends, people should be frankly. Perhaps, they will hate you for a certain period of time, but several years later they may find out that it is for their own good. As long as we are right and for our friends' own goods, we do not need to hastate to tell our friends true. Therefore, the possibility to destroy friendship is not an excuse to let our friends make mistake. In sum, true friend should tell the true when our friends are on the edge of making mistake, since avoiding to destroy friendship is not an excuse and true friends are always for friends’ own good.
In sum, true friend should tell the true when our friends are on the edge of making mistake, since avoiding to destroy friendship is not an excuse and true friends are always for friends’ own good.
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