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<p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">压良为贱。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">良,是良家子女。贱,是婢妾奴仆。压,是把势力去压制,使他做奴婢,子孙必有还报的。至于卖良为娼,罪重恶极,更不必言。○对面看来,善人最要替人赎子女,如宋时曾谅,见人卖女还官钱,便出四万钱代赎,梦一神谓:你无子,因阴德有子。后果生一子及第,官至奉政。上海朱锦出重价,赎里中有夫的女,使不为娼,后中会元。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">谩蓦愚人。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">谩,音瞒。蓦,音莫。○欺骗愚人,使他落我圈套,岂知愚的到不妨,乖的倒要取祸。天道是恶巧薄,怜愚拙的,<span style="BACKGROUND: aqua; mso-highlight: aqua;">这二句最是欺诈的恶。</span>○对面看来,善人晓得愚有两种:朴实的愚,肯听好说话,还可使他安稳,惟有自说我智,一味使乖的。眼不肯看善书,耳不肯听善言,心不肯信善事,口不肯说善缘,足不肯到善地,五条门路绝。根器坏尽了,任性贪鄙,一文不舍;然犹一心望富贵、望长寿、望子孙好,那知孽重祸来,犹如雪消霜散,这等极愚,虽善人,也没奈何的。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">贪婪无厌。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">婪,音阑。○婪也是贪。贪财无知足的人,势必刻薄鄙吝,被人咒骂,不生福的,总是小算盘千算,自有大算盘来一算。日日做杀子孙的事,还要说我为子孙计,岂不昏黑。○对面看来,善人的贪,不在财,只在善,如袁了凡初行善事三千条,中举;再行善事三千条,得子;又行善事万条,中进士,做知县,增寿算。凡善事或施贫人,或放生命,费百钱为一善,富的加十倍,准一善,大富的再量加。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span lang="ZH-TW" style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">咒诅求直。</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><font face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">诅,音阻。○咒诅如神前告状罚咒等类。直,是曲直的直,我理如直,宽解自明。若咒诅,未免怨恨,动了凶心反惹灾祸。○对面看来,善人不表白人的不直,也不表自己的直。如彭矩有人偷他菜,假做不知;有人侵占园界,假做不知;有今诬陷他偷伞偷衣,便如数偿还他;并占园界的,被人讼了官,彭代求衙役得免打,性极好善,后里中连受水火灾,独彭家得保全。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">嗜酒悖乱。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">嗜,是好。酒以养性,可饮不可多,若沉湎在此中,令人心粗胆壮,淫杀口过,都无忌惮,便是悖理乱性,取祸招殃,并有丧命的,凡早饮昼饮都宜戒。<span style="BACKGROUND: aqua; mso-highlight: aqua;">这三句,最是酒色财气的恶。</span>○对面看来,善人独饮有节,共饮也有节。独饮时,乘暇检点口中所做,能过意得去否;共饮时,便要打算某善事趁此可做,某善事可谈。范文正酒席间,助人丧事。稼书公酒席间,劝刻善书。常存此心,岂必饮酒,凡会皆然。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">骨肉忿争。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">骨肉间讲不得理的,那得人人合理,事事合理,只要责己重,责人轻,便少闲气。忿争最要伤天性,生祸端。○对面看来,善人极爱骨肉,并从骨肉支节间来,也要保护。如程大中公,官小禄薄,节俭仗义,抚养诸弟,及弟的子,从弟的子,到长都与他完姻,俸钱分惠伯叔子孙,及贫亲族,从堂姊妹,及甥男女无依的,都教养在家并嫁,族中孤女必尽力,公年八十五,生明道,伊川。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男不忠良。女不柔顺。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">万物惟人最灵,人又做男子为贵,既做男子,却又奸佞不忠,险僻不良,便枉负了七尺的躯,落在恶道,来生恐不能再做男子了。妇女要和顺明理为主,古语说:生女如鼠,犹恐如虎,若少带撤泼,定要惹祸,大害丈夫。○对面看来,善人齐家,一在正男女的性情,做男的教他居心真实,作事端方,笃信因果,克己复礼,闲邪存诚,知过必改,言行相应,广行化导,普利群伦,做女的教他不染时习,说话和柔,诸事顺从,相夫教子,克尽妇道。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">不和其室。不敬其夫。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">男子娶妻教做室,或因妻柔弱便欺凌他,或因阻嫖赌,便怨恨他,此辈少有善终的。至夫是妇的天,终身靠著,何可不敬,不敬夫便是悍妇,淫荡的妇,家门大不幸了。○对面看来,善人齐家,要在结夫妇的恩义,做男的教他和好结发,如刘廷式初约邻翁女为婚,登第后,女双盲,女家辞婚,廷式仍娶为妻,极和好,二子俱科甲。做女的教他敬重丈夫,如董恭人嫁陈志行,住荒村常常不举火,毫无怨意,后并助志行做清官。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">每好矜夸。常行妒忌。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">矜是骄矜。夸是夸张。富贵才能都是不足凭靠的,满则必覆,是该痛戒。人的阴恶,最在妒忌,每见妇人妒忌,害人性命,冤鬼讨命,也要偿命,甚至败家绝嗣,祸丈夫。○对面看来,善人齐家在化男女的气习。做男的教他谦让,如丁敬宇极其虚心恭敬和顺,小心谦畏,受侮不答,闻谤不辩,后发科第。做女的教他宽宏,如女宗嫁鲍苏,苏出外三年他娶,女宗说礼有七出,妒为第一,我岂敢犯,仍养婆尽礼,后上闻旌奖。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">无行于妻子。失礼于舅姑。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">待妻或刻薄寡恩,或亵狎无礼,待子或护短太甚,或打骂太严,都叫做无行。舅姑,是公婆。媳待公婆,犹如子待父母,时刻尽孝,便是合礼,若失了礼,忤逆媳妇,天道不容。○对面看来,善人齐家,要在立男女的家法,做男的教他待妻和且敬,待子严且慈。如汉时张湛,每日与妻子讲礼,及古今善言善事,一家感化,后官至太傅。做女的教他待公婆和孝父母。章宪文妻董氏家极贫,早夜纺织养公婆,自吃镬底焦饭,公喜酒,每夜百计具进,并备菜果,公婆病,竭力扶持,夜不合眼,辛苦廿年,人称孝妇,后宪文中进士。○感应篇劝善戒恶,虽不说女人,然女人也在其内,盖善是男女同该做的,福是男女同该修的。古来妇女为善说不尽,今略指几个,奉劝世间:有未嫁时为善的麻姑,父被逼筑城,早夜不停,只许鸡鸣暂息,姑爱恤他苦,假做鸡鸣,众鸡都鸣,后便成仙。有既嫁为善的,二程夫子母侯夫人,赒济亲族,合药施人,收养邻里孤儿到长,仍还他父,待小奴婢如己子女,苏东坡母程夫人,好读书,明道理,常说积财倒要愚了子孙的,因赒亲族,助嫁娶,施穷人,乐善不倦。陈几亭夫人丁氏,尽捐田百亩,救济孤穷,子孙累世昌盛。刘夫人见一囚犯,病倒门首,就变卖物品,代他赎罪,明日便产子名洵,后中会魁,孙科甲六人。又有与夫同为善的,袁了凡行善事一万六千条,袁夫人每日助行几件,后了凡中进士,子俨也进士。苏翁与妻极爱惜飞走的物命,每日夫妇不吃饱,留饭与丐吃,后俱百岁。又有守节为善的,怀仁县刘氏家富,闻县官催钱粮要紧,贫民无完,独捐银十万雨代完,子孙数世科甲。剡州陈氏,织手巾度日,减衣减食,救济穷人,勉力不倦,遇仙姑,教织锦帕,家便当,二子一名医,一登第。建州练夫人,夫章太傅亡后,有南唐二将来破城将屠,因与太傅有旧交,授旗插门首,记认勿杀,练夫人说,幸念旧好,求全此城,若不然,请先众死,二将因不屠城,夫人生八子,俱大贵。看这几条,便知女人为善,受福原与男人一样,并可免产难,豫修来世做男身。今女人亦有日诵感应篇的,这是最好,然也要依了他做。至于小学,朱子做来并教女子的,节孝教子,都在其内,也要拣要紧的熟读。凡家中有识字的,大要讲明这段。</span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: teal; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">轻慢先灵。</span></b></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><p class="MsoPlainText" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 15pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">祖宗父母既殁,他的阴灵常在,叫做先灵。轻慢,如殡殓无礼,居丧违制,祭享不虔,拜扫不勤,及卖坟山祭田、祠堂祭器、坟树等都是,至停柩不葬,尤为大罪。<span style="BACKGROUND: aqua; mso-highlight: aqua;">这十句最是居家的恶。</span>○对面看来,善人孝敬先灵,像在生一般,每事照文公家礼,葬务更要速办。文昌帝君救世文说,每岁立腊,北帝统御随处地方,阴兵神鬼,细查人家坟墓,如椁坍出,风吹骨殖,暴露尸骸,即察其承值子孙之灭天理,薄祖先之罪,暗使其渐渐贫乏,或子孙夭死,或孤寡久病,或火盗刑戮,绝嗣抛骨。</span></p> |
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