自己注册的公司, 推荐信请当General Manager的 husband写还是请客户写好?

lili2004

我在北美, 工作在自己注册的小公司(年收入十几万美金), business partner是我和 husband. 法律文书上我的 title 是 busienss development manager, husband 是general manager.

我现在请人写推荐信的话, 是请husband写好呢, 还是请客户写好?

1. Husband写的话, 对我的工作评价的会很全面, 我们做过的项目会很清楚. 而且也是我直接的 leader. 但问题是在推荐信中要不要表明他除了是我的general manager 外还是 husband呢?  

2. 学校会不会认为husband 写的推荐信十分不可信呢?

3. 请客户写的话, 了解不会很深入, 都是单个项目的接触, 担心会是一些客套话.

象我这种情况, 请谁写会好呢?

请大家多多评价帮忙!! 谢谢!!!

mianzhu

Client seems to be in a better position for recommendation.

lili2004

谢谢mianzhu!

还请其它的大虾们谈谈您们的看法! 多多益善呀!

mianzhu

Actually you can get offical answers from the schools you are
interested in, just send them e mail, I believe they will reply you. Or
you can go to Wharton student 2 student/ BW Forum  to post the
message there, you will get response there too.

lili2004

Hi, Mianzhu,

Thanks so much for your quick answer.

I amn't type of lazy girl. I just find this forum is nice to get update information.

Wharton isn't my dream school. Do you know UC at Berkeley, UCLA, University of Chicago and Cornell University have got "student 2 student/BW Forum"?  How to access their forums? Just explore their websites, then I'll find there, right?

Thanks!! Great evening!

IDAISY

i once saw someone ask the similar question on bw forum. the reply is always try your all means avoid to use your relatives as your recommender...so your judgement call

dashasha

我觉得不能用husband作推荐人，记得在哪个学校网页上看，连朋友都不可以作推荐人，更别提亲戚，甚至是husband了。

lili2004

Thanks, guys. I got  it. Appreciate all your help!

jkmbe

我的情况跟LZ差不多, 所以找了两个老客户写的推荐信.

lili2004

我也初步决定请客户写啦! 谢谢大家. 不知道还有人有别的建议吗?