遇到这种情况, 你会怎么做呢？

Jamiefighting

遇到这种情况, 你会怎么做呢？

JonFrank

Jamiefighting 发表于 2015-6-23 01:28
Thanks so much Jon, your answer is so hearty and helpful. Actually, she is considering to delay he ...

Hey there,
I don't think she needs to worry. If she applies with better application materials or a better CV the schools will just assume that she got some help. And everybody gets help! So I don't see any real reason to fear anything negative.

Jon Frank

Jamiefighting

JonFrank 发表于 2015-6-16 22:47
I don't think anyone can tell her what to do. This is a moral and ethical issue, after all! And sh ...

Hi , Jon.  could you please answer my last questions, if you know something about them?

Jamiefighting

JonFrank 发表于 2015-6-16 22:47
I don't think anyone can tell her what to do. This is a moral and ethical issue, after all! And sh ...

Thanks so much Jon, your answer is so hearty and helpful. Actually, she is considering to delay her study plan and reapply for next year. I believe it will not be bad for her because she will get one more year experience and can prepare better.  

But the point is that, if she reapplys for the same propram for next year and submits a different CV from the first one submitted, will the admission officers be aware of it and influenced by it in their decision making? What is the best to SAY or to DO to prevent from any negative effects on her new applications?

I am her closest sister and always do my best to take care her. Actually, she is shying and not telling much about her bad condition to others,except me. I will encourage her to talk to you, if she makes her decision. Again, thank you so much Jon !

JonFrank

Jamiefighting 发表于 2015-6-15 17:31
Thank you for your answer. As you said, she has attended the interview, and has been admitted by t ...

I don't think anyone can tell her what to do. This is a moral and ethical issue, after all! And she needs to make the call on her own. If someone else tells her what to do, and she does it, she's going to have to live with it... and that may put her back into the very same position she is right now! So, yes, this is not an ideal situation, but she needs to decide for herself what she feels comfortable with.

It sounds to me that she is NOT comfortable with the lying. Otherwise, she wouldn't think twice about that interview. And if that is the case, perhaps the better thing to do is to withdraw, and then reapply (HONESTLY) next year. That way, she's applying with a clear conscience, and she has nothing to worry about If she is smart in her apps, and approaches them the right way, she won't have to lie! And then it will feel so much better when she gets in.

But, again it's really up to what she believes in her heart is the best for HER. And if she does decide to reapply, tell her to ping me on We Chat. I'd be more than happy to help her and answer any questions I can!

Jon Frank

Jamiefighting

JonFrank 发表于 2015-5-13 18:11
Hey,
First of all, she should 100% for sure go to the interview. She didn’t get accepted yet. And e ...

Thank you for your answer. As you said, she has attended the interview, and has been admitted by this school. But the point is that this school is her priority and she really want to go to this school.. Now she has pushed herself to the corner. What she can do ?

JonFrank

Hey,
First of all, she should 100% for sure go to the interview. She didn’t get accepted yet. And even if she does, she can decide to not go. But since she already went through the process, let her gain the experience of an Interview. There’s 100% no problem of doing an interview and then telling the school you don’t want to go after you are accepted. She has nothing to lose and lots to gain by doing this interview, so why not?

Jon

Jamiefighting

这丫现在想去面试，然后和面试官坦白说是中介为了包装然后替自己交上的。。  我觉得这有点异想天开了，这样学校倒认为你这人太没自主能力了，连自己的申请都会弄错。。

Jamiefighting

kaz19900328 发表于 2015-5-11 17:33
哎，所以就是要么准备一下，祈祷面试不会太问编的这个工作经验。要么就是放弃这个学校吧。。 ...

恩，我想这东西不是面试过了就完了，即使通过面试，以后上学，然后毕业工作，都可能会提到这么一段，特别是MBA的课堂，时不时就会联系到以前的工作背景， 这样岂不是永远摆脱不掉了。。。

Jamiefighting

ihaveausdream 发表于 2015-5-11 06:21
这么做就算学校background check没发现，以后一辈子都有可能抓着小辫子学校随时可以收回学位。。。。
虽然 ...

恩，我也这么认为，就像埋下颗隐形炸弹一样。。而且以后每每说到工作经历都要写上这么一段，可是会跟随一辈子的。。