跪求大牛们帮忙拍砖~~菜鸟作文~~

twinkle宸妤

主题：交友标准——选择一起have fun的朋友还是选择有困难时相助的朋友
No one will deny that a good friend is of great importance to the individuals’ life. Facing with the challenges during the developing process of our own, we always get a lot of comforts from the feeling of company. Though the public attitude to friendship does have a consensus, the standards of choosing friends vary tremedously in the contemporary society. On the contrary to people who choose friends exclusively depending on the common interests, I would like to select my friends in consideration of reliability.
Admittedly, sharing some common interests, such as music, movies or sports, is a basic step to develop further friendship. By realizing the insights on a certain aspect mutually, the people who meet for the first time will get approach to a feeling that the distance between them is shortened to an immense degree. In other words, the same experience in the certain hobbies brings a feeling of familarity. Thus, such is this factor makes numerous people becoming friends. Besides, to have fun toghther motivates them to contact with each other more frequently, and consequently strengthens this relationship.
However, a firm friendship not only bases on the sharing happy time, but also bases on timely support and help. This type of behavior has tight connection with personal core qualities, which I concern most in the judgement of friendship. As the old saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. So whether a friend can do a favor to one who suffers difficulties has become a vital criterion of a genuine friendship. Even sometimes a friend may lack of the capability to give a hand, but a strong willingness to help also proves his spiritual support, which represents the quality of the relationship perfectly. The most heartbroken scene may be that an intimate friend disappears right at the moment when one has got in trouble. But after all we fortunately get a chance to distinguish who is the real friend that stands by our side. And the definitely reliable friend means a priceless fortune for us to treasure.
In fact, even though this standard has an essential value in choosing friends, due to the rapid life rhythm, people rarely have that mach opportunity and time to use it as a primary one. People always sort their entire friends into several categories at different levels in mind. Thus, it is common to see people have different kinds of friends.

twinkle宸妤

拜谢各位大神们了~帮个忙好不……12.22就要考试了，真是觉得给跪了哇……