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shallbytwo

Perhaps no one issue under friendship category is as significant as be honest , and i believe almost of us , of the decent people , will choose yes, to be honest to friend. Here i agree with such statement. But when it comes to absolute honest in friendship, it is hard to determine. At least , as far as i am concerned , I barely agree the possibility.

As soon as we start interact with others , it is impossible to openly honest.  At some point concern about other people's judgmental  will have  an impact on the answers we give, the action we take and the choice we make. Sometimes, we will give dishonest answer to protect our friendship with others. Give an example, one of friends invite you to his birthday party , even he is the one of the most-not-want -to -see group, will you just go straight forward and say no？ Actually, almost of testers , testers from a survey sponsored by NewYork Times in 2010, present no . That is because we need to protect our relationship with others, and the incentive to protect the relationship is impossible to blot out, which originates from person's instinct.  rotecting our spot in the society has been long enough history to track back to primite .At that time, our ancestors are looking for survive in the wild by connecting with each other. The personal instinct to look for survive , as biggest benefit in wild , which becomes get best life in nowadays society , determines our action to make friends.  

From other side, 100% honest can not last in friendship. The aim to be completely honest to friends to get paid back with same honest. The person who decides to give his total honesty to friends must expect to get his friend's honesty at same time. Once this expectation fails , he will lose motif. However , the response of every one to other people's honesty varies depend on various situation, hence the total honesty to friend can not possible exist.

After ruminating the motif to make friends and the situation of absolute honesty in friendship,  we have come to a notation that it is impossible to completely be honest to friend.

晨依Jacqueline

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