日期将近,深陷申请琐事中,求大神指点。
Your job will have more effect on your happiness than the social life does.
The definitionof happiness varies from person to person. As for me, it largely depends onmaterial life of family, proper circle of friends and choice to self-implement.In this case, my job as a steady source of revenue is the fundamentality of allabove while social life as a way of exchanging information and promotingfriendly relationship is super-structure of my life.
Since I ama student from a family still under the threatening of poverty, a decent job,rather than social work, is more likely to ensure a happy life.
Firstly,it is a decent job that determines a good material life and provides bettercondition for family. A well connected man may find it satisfied with friendsaround all the time, but even the most supportive and loving friends cannot payfor your food or rent for the rest of your life. When it comes to an abundantmaterial life, one has to be self-reliant and earn a living for happiness. Witha decent salary, I can dress up in style and take cosmetic for compensation andafford a new highly equipped apartment with sound securities for marriage, meanwhilemy grandparents can receive adequate treatment in time when they got sick, myparents can taste a rich variety of cuisines in fancy restaurants in daily lifeor during trips, and my relatives can foster her children’s interest forfurther development. Only when these basic needs of life are fully satisfiedcan one feel relieved and focus on other aspects of life.
Secondly, a proper job can introduce me tolikely-minded friends, which leads to happiness. My ideal friends are peoplewho have professional spirit, open mind, tranquil and endurable attitude.Nothing is more effective than practice in jobs to cultivate professionalismand accumulated mannered experience, by delving into matters, fulfilling tasks withintight schedule and dealing with different kinds of people. Just as the oldsaying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Therefore jobs offer me prerequisiteof accessing to endearing friends. Thirdly, working experience can bring me self-bettermentopportunities. On one hand, In most companies, self-development is aided byinternal training and some provide compensation for advanced studies. On theother hand, as society is experiencing rapid development of economic and technology,people are more likely to gain a mid-career education than before, like an MBAdegree. As far as I concern, committees consider working experience as a mainstandard selecting applicants. The more valuable applicants’ experience is, themore competitive they are and as a result the more choices they have. Admittedly, networking is necessary forliving a happy life. Family relationships will be more harmonious if they keepcontacting, more friends will come to my life and unexpected opportunities willappear if I meet with more people and participate in their communication. However,jobs have more valuable merits as an stable, efficient, durable means for me tolive a happier life. I therefore reinforce my standpoint to choose job as myfinal choice for more effective factor of happiness. |