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DA OR A It is impossibleto be completely honest with your friend. I am always
amazed when I hear people saying that being completely honest with my friend is
a piece of cake. As for me, three factors, simple but overwhelmingly important,
have governed my decision: The longing for the real trust, the search for an eternal
friendship and the pursuit for intimacy from deep heart. Therefore, I without
hesitation maintain that being entirely honest with friends is a sweet promise,
over time, cannot be kept.First, honest is sure to play a pivotalrole in forming our friendship. Without honest,friendship is just an aloof and empty word which we encountered one a milliontime in the heavy dictionary; based on honest, we expand the abstruse meaningof trust with a totally stranger. We are willing to spend nearly a whole lifetime, albeit that will be a long arduous process, finding a perfect friend. Asa whole, obviously we would try our best to preserve it-being honest aspossible as we can.
Moreover, considering making all theefforts to conserve the precious friendship, a few times of dishonest issometimes reasonable. Being unblemished honest in some instances may set you ina dilemma, thereby ruining your relationship with your friend. That comes anold story, one of my best friend was suffering with a serious disease. At thattime, she was vulnerable to any big shock as one thing, which I happen to know,her boyfriend wants to break up with her. I was pretty sure that this time Icould not be honest to her. Every time I went to the hospital, I found myselfin such a dilemma that whether I should tell her the truth. Luckily, she gotover it like all the happy-ending stories, so did the relationship between herboyfriend and her. Staying in silence this time may be the best decision I evermade during the interaction with this friend. In the view of protecting the oneI love, however, I do the right thing-throw the impeccable friendship away and setmyself in the reality world helping my dear friend.
Meanwhile, not being completely honestdoesn’t means being not honest at all. Weneed to set a deadline, what time is essential to tell a lie, for ourselves. Ifwe often use the excuse, “I do this for your good “, to conceal the mistake wemade , that will definitely attribute to collapse of your friendship. Only insome special occasion , should we tell a lie.
From thediscussion above , I can safely draw the conclusion that being completelyhonest to our friend is indeed a hard target we will never achieve in views ofsustaining a healthy and long-lasting friendship. |
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发表于 2013-4-4 13:12:50
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