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Agree or Disagree

“Letting friends make a
mistake is better than saying or doing something that may destroy the
friendship.”

Friendship is such a treasure that everyone cherishes
it. Nobody wants to do anything to destroy this relationship. Therefore, when
facing the problem that whether to take measures to prevent our friends making
mistakes at the risk of destroying friendship, many people feel confused. As
far as I am concerned, we all should do as much as we can to help our friends
not commit faults, because it is “friend” really means.

In the first place, friendship should not be based on
the fine words, but the mutual help and mutual understanding. There is no
denying that every person likes to hear the sweet words and obtain the support,
especially from their friends. However, sometimes it is these sweet words and
blind support that do harm to them. For instance, when studying in the senior
high school, I was a straight-A student. One of my friends called Marry, who
did not work hard on her study. Once, she asked me to write an essay for her to
participate in the Essay Competition. I disagreed and decided to talk with her
sincerely. After that talk, she finally realized her fault and studied much
hard from then on. In the last year of our senior high school, both of us were
admitted by Beijing
                    University. We have both
being treated each other the best friends all along this eight years. So preventing
your friend from making mistakes will not destroy but strengthen the relationship.

Furthermore, the consequence of the mistakes will be
probably quite serious. Not only will it be adverse to your friend but also harmful
to others. If you have found your friend had made a severe mistake, considering
its bad effect, you would better to try to avoid it and help your friend make
up for it. Suppose that one of your best friends addicted himself to the computer
games, which affects many students around him. As occasion serves, they skip
their classes and play computer games together. In this case, you should better
help him get rid of the internet addiction instead of standing by. Maybe, he
could not understand you at that time. Nevertheless, when he gets out of that virtual
world and realizes your aid, he will be sure to be grateful to you.
                Thereby, a real friendship is never that fragile. Have
you ever hared that old saying “Unpleasant advice is good medicine.”?

In conclusion, although sometimes the suggestions would
not be understood by our friends, or even they would still be self-absorbed
ignoring your advice, you should not let them make mistakes without saying or
doing any, just for so called “friendship”.