标题:
Do you agree or disagree with the following statement: letting a friend make a mistake is better than saying or doing something that may destroy the friendship. 文章:
The marriage of a great volume of things that we worry about and complicated situations that we have to deal with have made the relationship among people become much more complex than ever. People often get stuck in such dilemma as what we should do when a friend is making things go wrong. Personally speaking, I have always considered pointing out the mistake as a more proper choice. Why some people choose to ignore the mistake merely because they do not want to be the destroyer of the relationship is beyond me. In the first place, a friend may not be that thankful if you let him or her make the mistake without a word. One case a student is quite familiar with strongly holds this idea. Dating back to the time when students are submitting their assignments. Such requests as "do not tell the teacher about my absence today, please." are often heard. Obviously, the student who is absent is making a mistake because he or she is trying to cover the truth up rather than deal with it. But the other student is babyish if he or she regards that help the absent student to cover it up as the better choice. The absent student is will take a test about some keystones taught exactly in the class he or she has misses. At that time, needless to say, the absent student will not reckon you as a benefactor instead. Furthermore, if a friendship can be broken up because one has done something other than let the other one make the mistake, take this friendship as a true friendship is definitely inaccurate. A person will be grouchy just because one friend has expressed his opinion towards him, undoubtedly, is not a good friend. While some people may still hold the view that everyone will be unhappy when others point out their mistakes. However, what I need to add is that a positive person will be glad because this mistake can be avoided in the future. On the contrary, a negative person may combine such situation with bitterness, because he or she is embarrassed. Choosing a positive person to be your friend, evidently, is superior to a negative one. Because of the reasons that I mentioned above, I firmly believe that one could do anything about the mistakes which are made by friends instead of letting it, for this is the significance of a true friendship.
[此贴子已经被作者于2007-12-25 22:16:53编辑过] |