真诚想大家请教

先向大家介绍一下我们的情况：

我本科和硕士都在一所普通的211大学读书，明年7月硕士毕业，会计专业。我男朋友1月份去OX读PHD，大概3年左右。

我现在很苦恼，不知道到底自己是应该继续读书还是工作，如果继续读书应该去那里读书。

我已经收到pwc的offer，虽然不是什么很好的Co.但是如果去工作养活自己应该不成问题。不过听说里面很辛苦的。同时我也准备了GT考试，成绩不太理想，GMAT650.

我男朋友很希望我能出去陪读，但是我很茫然，只是在那里idle吗？我一直在学校里读书，还没有用到实践中就直接过渡到家庭主妇了，我不是很能接受，也很难跟父母交代。我也想过申请个英国的学校再读一个master，可是英国高昂的消费真的让我望而却步？我甚至想再读一个phd，因为一般phd就有奖学金了，但是似乎觉得自己的这个动机不纯，不充分。

我到底应该怎么办？难道注定未来的几年我要和BF分隔两地吗？

I discourge you to apply Ph.D. , at least the Ph.D. in the b-school in the States is very rigid and hard to be admitted

I suggest you work firstly to see whether you like your job. If you do, stay in China and wait for your bf to come back. If you don't, you try to apply UK PhD or go to UK after marrying with your bf.

In my opinion, staying at home to be a housewife wastes your time and money. Moreover, you will become very upset and lonely when your husband is busy at doing research but you have much spare time, leading to a dispute finally.

Thank you very much!

May my BF understand me whatever I choose.sigh

1. if your BF does not take your career plan and your personal interest into account before making his own career decisions, I personally suggest you walk away from such a guy who is not loaded with sense of responsibility in a reasonable scale

2. going for PhD means your commitment to the research activities in the following four or five years or even longer period of time. so, do not risk your future on the silly idea that it will be easier to get financial aid if enrolled in a PhD program

I think PhD is equal to a job. Some people want to go to US so that they need to do PhD. So going to UK to do PhD for bf is also fine.

I believe that doing PhD is better than staying at home.