When I asked my current boss to write recommendation for me, I also gave him a small gift. He returned it to me along with a bunch of recommendation letters and he told me that I could give him such a gift at any other occasion but not this moment. He is indeed bit maverick (in many other aspects), but I guess he wants to be neutral.
Actually, I have presented my idea regarding recommendation before. Say something more here. First, I totally understand the action of writing recommendation by ourselves. Some guys hesitate to ask professors to write recommendations because they think these professors they refer to are busy and will be tired of doing so. I think this might not stand. To my current understanding, writing recommandations is an honor other than a burden for professors. If the professors use "busy" as an excuse, I think they should be "blamed". Here we might have neglected one fact that some Chinese professors might not be comfortable with writing in English. Well, this is another story.
By the way, it is better to have several conversations with the professors whom we refer to regarding our application prior to asking them to write the recommendations. By doing so, the professors would be able to know us, our intention, our career goal and our credential more, and thus the recommendations can be more convincing. I believe schools would be tired of a piece of paper with numerous flattering words but no specific facts.
My cousin used to work at an admission committee (science filed though) and she told me that she had read too many "bad" recommendations and in some letters the applicants were even described as a "junk". I was also told that the applicants' profiles would not thrown in the trash can only because one "bad" recommendation letter, and the admission committee would explore the reason and refer to the other two recommendation letters. Such cases may really go to the extreme; however, I think only people who know us well can present a better picture of us, even for our con side.
As I said before, it is hard to write several letters using different writing styles. Be careful!
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