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标题: 呜呜，老师不肯帮我写推荐信．．．．．． [打印本页]

作者: ellen要雪耻 时间: 2006-9-26 13:36
标题: 呜呜，老师不肯帮我写推荐信．．．．．．

老师好拽，怎么办？？就差这一个老师谈不下来，没有比他好的备用人选，因为其他的专业课大都是Ｂ类的！！！

哭啊哭．．．．．

作者: ellen要雪耻 时间: 2006-9-26 13:40

自己是从来不勉强别人的人，他不愿意也没办法，四缠烂打也不好吧．

可是找一个没怎么给自己上过课的老师写，总觉的不合适，也没意思，那样的话我更不知道如何跟老师开口了．

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-9-27 10:56:33编辑过]

作者: calebxu 时间: 2006-9-26 17:21

有没有问他为啥不肯写？

作者: 番茄笑了 时间: 2006-9-27 05:06
可是如果教授主观不愿意写你最后就算说服也不太好吧？万一他/她因为一开始就不情愿给你写得不好怎么办？还是小心一点！尽量找对你比较了解，又非常愿意帮助你的人比较好一些，就算他/她可能没有那个教授那么有名气！

作者: ellen要雪耻 时间: 2006-9-27 10:04

决定了，全部申请会计！！！

作者: snowfield 时间: 2006-9-27 10:05

以下是引用番茄笑了在2006-9-27 5:06:00的发言：
可是如果教授主观不愿意写你最后就算说服也不太好吧？万一他/她因为一开始就不情愿给你写得不好怎么办？还是小心一点！尽量找对你比较了解，又非常愿意帮助你的人比较好一些，就算他/她可能没有那个教授那么有名气！

说得好！想想别的辙吧，强扭的瓜不甜！

作者: yession 时间: 2006-9-28 13:49

这个老师不HD啊我昨天去跟系里一个教授说

他二话没说就答应了

作者: mauricewang 时间: 2006-9-28 23:01

forget about it. Just find somebody else. Frankly speaking, few chinese professor in Chinese universities are recognizable in US.A young assistant professor who got his or her phd in US will be more persuasive than an old so called professor. Do not worry about it. The recommendations from not-well-known professors are the same.They care more about your other qualifications.

Good luck!

作者: beingsilly 时间: 2006-9-29 15:57
Frankly, in US, if a professor refused to write you a reference, he/she was doing a favor to you. Coz the reason why he/she didn't want to write you a reference might be he/she couldn't write anything good of you. It's better not to write than write a "bad" reference.

作者: 番茄笑了 时间: 2006-9-30 04:15

以下是引用beingsilly在2006-9-29 15:57:00的发言：
Frankly, in US, if a professor refused to write you a reference, he/she was doing a favor to you. Coz the reason why he/she didn't want to write you a reference might be he/she couldn't write anything good of you. It's better not to write than write a "bad" reference.

非常同意！！

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