【Native Speaker每日综合训练—32系列】【32-07】经管

Talitha

THANK YOU！！！

2：2‘52：393
-we feel uncomfortable for not knowing something. however, it is an rare opportunity for us to learn new things.

3:2'12:238
-author provides many questions for helping us in the situation to overcome the discomfort. of not knowing.

4:2'42:373
-we like to talk but not listening.
-author listed several costs for poor listening.
-listed the reason why we do not want to listen.

5:2'55:433
-author gives the tips on how to be a good listener.
-first focus on the person who is talking, eye contact, stop whatever distract you ect.
-secondly, repeat or sum up what he say to comfirmation whatever you understand correctly

6:3'08:415
-Puerto Rico has 70 billions debt that could not be paid off.
-the debt is 8 times more than detriot but less safety net for investors.
-tax credit does not help
-consequence of heavy debt: increase in murder rate etc.

7:6'30:911
-main idea: be honest is the right attitude to answer the question: what is your greatest weakness
-the importance of being honest in the team building in the new startups
-how and what school career center teach students on how to answer the questions.
-how author will do in the interview and his suggest for how to answer the question.

hanhonglan2003

Time 2 3:20

People don't like to say "I don't know"
Cause it feel uncomfortable.

However, it does have positive effect to accept and admit
one's unknowing.
It can stimulate our inner strength and wisdom to develop our self,
also we can get free from the burden that we know the answer.

Time 3 2:25

Open yourself to the new world of not knowing.
Next time, if you face a question without knowing the answer,
please ask the problems.


Time 4 3:20

Listening is a factor that cause profit lose.
People want to be heard rather than listen.
People have fear of listening, cause the fear to face the obstacle.
Such as... ...
Listening is different from hearing, which is our body's physical function when
listening need to be open our heart to catch the other's point.
It's a skill.


Time 5 2:50

how to listen other people?
following two steps below.
one: focus on the people
Listen to the people, in the same time, observe the gesture and the tone of the speaker.
to catch the speaker's feeling.
You can share your opinion later.

second: confirm the information
Confirm the information by asking questions, and if wrong, back to the step 1
and start again until clarify it.

Listening needs practice.


Time 6 4:04

Puerto Rico's debt is twice times of Detroit, it's a systemic.

Obstacle 8:20

Telling the truth is important in interview.

unoit

thanks a lot!!!
time2 2'20''
It's hard for people to say "I don't know" because that make people feel uncomfortable.
Disadvantages of not knowing and how do people react to it. On the other hand, there are also some advantages of admitting not knowing.

time3 1'40''
Admitting not know can help people get away from some depression and learn more. Then the author lists some questions that people can ask themselves when they are facing somethings unknown, and face them in right way.

time4 2'16''
Poor listening causes a lot of troubles, which are more than money.  There are difference between hear and listen.Two reason why we are poor listening.If people do not listen well, there will be many problems.

time5 2'25''
Two steps to be a good listener.
1 Focus on other in a communication, eliminate all other distraction. Try to ask yourself some question to make sure if you are concentrated.
2 after the other people finished talking, confirm your perspective with him, avoid misunderstanding.

time6 2'42''
Afraid of this kind of article... hard to follow even know the words.
The situation of P city and its poor economic, what the government could does and what should investors do to deal with this situation.

obstacle 6'18''
Honest is one of the most important sprites of human, and it is useful to do a good job or make a good start up. However, nowadays most universities teach their students to answer question in a smooth way rather than a honest way. The author is worried with this, he points out the disadvantages of this and shows his way of interview, which ask his interviewer to drop away what they have learned from job centro and answer his question in a honest way.

依瑾静静静

2.2'52"
We are always fear to admit not knowing.
We pretend to know everything to protect our ego.
But not knowing is actually a positive factor as a self-supporting and personal-developmental practice.

3.1'59"
Give up to be the expert and regard not knowing as a part of your life.
That is an opportunity to grow and learn sth new about ourselves.
Ask several questions such as the following when you confront a not knowing next time.

4.2’40"
Every day organizations pay a huge price for poor listening, which is due to the eager of being heard first.
Hearing and listening are quite two different issues.
Fear is the largest reason that produce poor listening.

5.3'06"
Two steps to make you truly listening.One is to focus on the person who is speaking. The other is to make confirmation of what you have got by asking some questions.

6.3'05"
With huge size but without safety investor net, PR's debt is in a negative future. And the city is going to collapsing

pennyz

2:19s
speed
2:13s
veneer of competence is intact
spurious 虚假的
cloud the issue掩盖问题
feign 假装，装作
catalyst 催化剂
2;18s
2:57s
the big loss of poor listening
focus on the person and confirm what you have listened
3:24s
purto ricos's debt is held by many municipal bonds.And after degradation,the story of purto ricos still will not end well
unlike the state of us,it can not go bankrupcy under the umbrella of the federal government
and the recession is systemic.
bailout 救助
obstacle
6：35s
the population of dishonesty
dishonesty is taught in career center of college,but honesty is the element quality for startup
the question:
what is your greatest weakness?
two ways have been taught about this answer in college
1 lesser skills:perfectionist tendency,too passionate
2 turn the weakness into strength
but  from these answer,we can not see how you encounter with the problems,what is actually  going on
if you answer the question honestly,the outcome will turn out to be very great.
and it will reflect your three qualities:
1self awareness
2critical
3 honesty
procrastinate

小蘑菇开始打怪

speaker:something about the American policy and leadership.
Why America will get return history? with 2 tools.
Why did the change happen?

the video is so long and with no lyc...I give it up at the half...

time2:2:29
People fear to admit that they do not know because they are afraid of losing face.
However, admitting not knowing can help you build creativity and insight. It has positive impact.

time3:1:36
The author lists some questions to think about not admitting not knowing.
Just be ok to say 'I don't know.'

time4:1:40
Why we need to listen? It is a skill and we will benefit a lot.
The definition between hearing and listening.
Hearing is a passive way. What you do is just sit there even though the voice is a noise to you.
Listening is a active way. You are willing to understand others.
Listening is a skill needs effort~

time5:2:18
Listening is a desire to understand. There are 2 steps to be a good listener.
step1: focus on the other person, set your opinion aside for a while.
step2:seek confirmation. stop listening until you entirely understand the stand of views of others.

time6:2:20
P has heavy debt. Its bonds have been downgraded to junk.
The amount is huge.

time7:5:43
It is approved that everyone need to be honest in the interview, however most of us are dishonest.
Make some examples in the interviews.
Some people answer questions mainly focus on the answering skills rather than the questions themselves.
Transfer the negative to positive.
Ask the students who is applying for the job to forget the words that some career center has told them, but most of the students still be dishonest. Consequently, these students would not got the job position.

政治什么的果然ORZ。。。

goodluck22

article 2 02'00
admit what we know feel uncomfortable. In western culture, we tend to overemphasize. In eastern culture, view not knowing for personal development practice.
article 3 01'28
be who we are. and the author list some question that next time we find ourself not knowing we can ask.
article 4. 01'42
lots of dollars are lost because of poor listening. The author give definition about hearing(passive) and listening( fully understand) . Fear is the obstacle that inhibit listening.
article 5 01'46
there are two step of listening. 1 focus on others (try to think what they feel) 2. seek confirmation on what you saw
article 6 02'48
the Puerto Rico has lots of debt and without safety for investors
obstacle 05'10
Honest is important . However the college center will teach student to give dishonest answers.
The author give an most frequently question when college student go interview
and there are two kind of answer but it is not the truth answer
the author like the student who is able to tell the truth

黄衣小亮

TIME2 02'36
main idea:people also feel uncomfortable when they are not knowing something.the process can be even unconscious,but people tend to defensive and pretend the appearence of knowing.however,there is positive side of not knowing.many eastern culture view not knowing as a self-supporting,personal-developmental prectice that can improve how efficiency we experience life.

TIME3 01'03
main idea:rather than defending against what we do not know,relax into it as a part of who we are,knowing that not knowing is a part of our everyday life and a oppoertunity to grow and learn sonething now about ouerselves in the process.ask youself some question the next time you not know.

TIME4 02'31
main idea:you must be astonished at the amount of money lost due to poor listening.it's person's natural deisre to speak out his opinion and be listened.poor listening lead to misunderstanding,errors,ineffective decisions and so forth.
the difference between hearing and listening.
fear is the largest obstacles that inhibits listening whenever disagreement occurs.

TIME5 02'28
main idea:some steps to train your capability to listening.
first,you ought to have a desire to listen other people's  viewpoint.
1.focus on other people by eye contact and halting all unnecessary activity.
2.seek confirmation for what you perceived.put your opinion temporary aside.

TIME6 02'53
main idea:standard&poor's and Moody's have downgrade PR's bonds to junk.RP has a municipal debt comparable in the size as NYC and California.wealth and population are migrating away from the country.

TIME7 06'58
main idea:people are not dishonisty innate.
the university school center always tell students how to behave themself at interviews.however,those candinates show litter honesty ,they cannot face and admit their weakness .admiting your shortness is necessory for a startup

squallds

Speed
【Time 2】2:32
many western people fear about not knowing, because it will put them into an awkward situation that make them uncomfortable, unconfident, and uncontrollable of themselves.
However, not knowing can be beneficial, especially to some eastern people who consider it a status good for learning and creativity. The more they learn the less fear they feel.

【Time 3】1:03
It’s OK not to know, for not knowing tells us who we are. The acknowledge of innocence can free us and make us relax.

【Time 4】2:04
Many company are losing money because of not listening to one another. Lack of listening can cause misunderstanding and distrust, which damage efficiency as a result.
Distinction between hearing and listing. The former is an passive action while the letter requires activeness and focus.
Learning to listen needs effort.

【Time 5】1:47
The desire to understand is a critical determinant in listening effectiveness
The first step is to focus by looking into the speaker’s eyes and think as he or she may think
The second step is to confirm the message you interpret with the speaker, showing that the communication is effective.

【Time 6】2:58
Pureto Rico is at the edge of bankruptcy, with outstanding municipal debt.
Population and wealth are migrating away from Pureto Rico. Descending economy and downgrading of municipal credit from agency deteriorate the capital cost invested in this country.
People who holds bonds or other stakes related to this country should reassess the value now.

【Time 7】5:50

苏错

Kimwang THX~~~~~

Speaker:
Issues and American leadership.
Speed:
Time2:2'12
People are always afraid of not knowing which makes us uncomfortable
and useless.
But not knowing still has many benefits.
Time3:1'23
Relax~~~No one is required to be expert in all areas.
We should ask questions the writer metioned and find answer.
Time4:1'38
Money are sometime lost due to the poor listening.
The defintion : listening= hear and understand
Time5:1'39
The mechanics of listening: Focus on the other people and verify.
Time6:1'45
Puerto Rico's debt
Obstacle:5'23
Honesty is always important in interview but the Office of Career Services
doubted that and thinks some answers should be positive.
But the writer took this as a terrible idea.